Ugh. if only her accusations held any truth. It would make dieting much easier. I'm going to suggest you talk to your coach about this. Then bring your child to an appointment with you. Let them see the success stories and pictures and, with coaches agreement and yours, allow the coach to educate your kid. Unfortunately disrespect needs to be dealt with early and often. For instance, I had a 12yr old scream at me about her laundry. From that day on I didn't touch hers. She gave up that right. My response to disrespect was, how small do you want your world to be? No phone, no car, no extras. You have what you have here at my pleasure. I owe you 2 meals a day, a bed and 2 pairs of clothing. That is the law. Chose wisely.