+19 votes
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I’m the heaviest I’ve ever been in my life! How is this? Why can’t I get it together? I lost over 50 pounds after having my son. I think breastfeeding helped, along the the  immense stress I was under) I just stopped eating and ta-da! It worked. now it’s back and more and I want to sew my lips shut! ‍♀️
I’m the heaviest I’ve ever been in my life!

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Even with the first 10 pound loss I felt so much better. Do this for yourself. Remember your goals!  
+7 votes
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I’m at my heaviest too! I was thinner after my last baby.  
+17 votes
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One day at a time, I've never been this heavy myself, not even preggers, 2 wks ago I started 2 watch myself, everything I eat, Thursday i will weigh in.  
+13 votes
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Me too! I got ill right before this covid outbreak and it made me so weak that I could barely walk. so I haven’t moved for 3 months and all I’ve been doing is eating  I’ve gained 15 pounds since the end of February. Halp
+13 votes
by (450 points)
Ive gained 33 not proud! Started counting calories yesterday
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@rolon you’ve got this! Stay strong!  
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@forficate36964 um trying thank you
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Many people are experiencing a higher level of stress and getting less exercise right now. Be kind to yourself. I have been trying to make one small change each week. Drink more water, go to bed earlier, have a 0 or low point breakfast. Then the next week, add another small change. For me, that helps me to get back in gear.  
+17 votes
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You have to be committed to weight watchers
+7 votes
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These are stressful times. My goals are to get my water in, and to walk 2x/day. I gained 2 lbs. I'm considering this a win.  
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Everyday is a new fresh start. We all get into that frame of mind at one point or another. I reread the post I share with other people that are just starting out or need refocusing when I need to refocus myself. Maybe something on this will help you. The good thing is it is a new day! Today you start fresh. Today is your first day! Welcome to WW! Here are some basic tips TRACK every lick, bite, and taste. The program does not work if you don't track. You can lie to the tracker but your body knows what it ate. MEASURE breakout the measuring spoons, cups and the food scale. Don't eyeball it you will be wrong. EXERCISE find something you love. You won't do if you hate it. I personally like walking, dancing when the weather says don't walk, and cardio-drumming. I do cardio-drumming from YouTube videos. Nothing is more satisfying than hitting things with sticks. If you need to start easy try marching in front of the TV during commercials and then build yourself up to a whole show. MEAL PREP I always keep a big bin of chopped onions, a big bin of chopped bell peppers, and a big bin of chunks of cooked chicken breast. I also have staples like cucumbers, tomatoes, spinach, pasta, laughing cow triangle cheese, olive oil farro, tzatziki sauce, garlic, eggs, apples, oranges, bananas, berries, whatever is in season. This way when I am hungry I have healthy choices. Breakfast omlette throw together garlic, onions, peppers, eggs and then fold it over a cut up wedge of laughing cow cheese. For lunch a very easy tzatziki chicken. Chicken, bell pepper, onions, cucumber, tomatoes. Toss it with tzatziki sauce. You can put it on a pita, eat it without the pita, or what I like to do is RIP up half a pita and mix it in after the tzatziki is mixed in. For dinner maybe a salad with the spinach, onions, peppers, chicken. Etc. Maybe pasta or rice with anything on the list. The most important tip is KINDNESS be as nice to yourself as you are to others. When you are giving your self negative back talk, ask yourself if that is how you would speak to a friend and give yourself a break. I almost forgot. zero points does not mean zero calories. For instance, a banana is zero points but if you over banana you are gonna get yourself into trouble. EAT you need to eat within 10 below and 5 above your points level. If consistently under eat your body thinks there is a famine and holds on to every ounce of weight it can until the famine is over. Under eating and over exercising is a bad combo. If you stick to 5 below and 5 above it works better. for me at least. You are not alone in this. A lot of us join with that "last resort" mentality. But don't think that way. Take a nice before picture with a big smile because today is the day your life changed for the better. You are gonna get healthy, you are gonna be fit. You are gonna breathe better. You just need to give it some time. This is a slow process but it is a process that works. I'm excited for you taking this big step towards a healthier life. You might want to sit down and write yourself a love letter stating why you joined WW and what your long term goals are, how you will accomplish them (small term goals) and what you will be able to accomplish when you get there! I personally would like to be able to get up off the floor without having to hoist myself up on the couch like I am climbing Mount Everest. That is one of the things future me will be able to do. Last tip. don't hang out in the kitchen. Eat there, cook there, clean the dishes. But if it isn't kitchen related get out of there it is too tempting. Also do not compare your journey to anyone else's. We are all different. We all have different metabolisms. So mind your own journey and don't worry that someone else lost more that week. It won't help your progress.  
by (600 points)
@salespeople thank you all great advice
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Thank you!  
+17 votes
by (5.9k points)
Forgive yourself regularly. You can do this. Take it a step at a time. You need to figure out your why and that will help motivate you.  
+15 votes
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Don’t sew your lips shut! I once had my jaws wired (after a car accident). I lost a lot of weight. However, the 1st time I was able to chew, I gained it all back. Plus! You begin this journey with one meal. Then, another meal. It’s just a day or a meal at a time. Pretty soon, you have meals & days behind you. Track what you eat. That more than anything keeps me accountable. Go to meetings (real/virtual), share what is going on for you. Keep sharing here. We’ve all been there and we’re all here for you, just one day at a time. Sending hugs. You can do this.  
+2 votes
by (600 points)
I’m having a hard time - my husband and son (he’s 4) will not eat like me.  
by (53.1k points)
@cheston4 go to purple. Its 300 zero point foods. There has to be something you all eat. Just don't call it diet food. Or blue 200 points. White meat chicken no skin is zero points. Make roast chicken dark meat and white meat everyone is happy. Whole wheat organic spaghetti from Trader Joe's is zero points on purple. Just call it spaghetti. He is 4. Not for nothing, my mom made 1 meal when we were growing up. You ate it or you didn't eat. Eventually hunger wins.  
by (600 points)
@salespeople I agree the 4 year old is the easy one he will eat fruits and most veggies all day with me lol
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by (16k points)
I was there after Christmas realizing that my biggest fat clothes were getting tight. I made up my mind that I wasn’t going to buy bigger ones! My daughter and I rejoined on New Years Eve and I’ve been on a roll since then, down 45# this week! I feel that choosing what I eat and how much activity are the two things in my life that I have total control over especially in this messed up time we are going thru! You also need to lose the guilt and value yourself, you deserve it!  
by (600 points)
@ligetti that’s a good perspective! This is what I can control right now!  
by (16k points)
You can and will do it!  
+9 votes
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Struggle on. It's hard when you have to cook for man & a baby. Good luck
+19 votes
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Crank up your self worth a little. Track every. little. thing. You will love the feeling of getting your self control back each time you track a food item and stay within your points! You have the tools and deserve to have success.  
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You are so cute! Love your honesty. Just start w as much of the program as you can. I started a little cookbook, 1st thing. Find fun activities to do w ur son for exercise. Best of luck. I believe you will sort this out.  
+15 votes
by (16k points)
Yep I'm losing the same 40lbs for the 4th time. And hope it sticks this time! Watch stress it plays a role in holding onto fat.  
+2 votes
by (16k points)
I fix meals I can eat and let hubby add the junk he wants! I’m losing he’s gaining! His choice!  
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