Quick question ladies. what would you do if you are married, have a credit card balance of 3000, a car loan balance of 12, n a school loan balance of 40.Quick question ladies. what would you do if you are married, have a credit card balance of 3000, a car loan balance of 12, n a school loan balance of 40. Ur husband purchased a multifamhouse before yall were married and its tenats cover the mortgage. You both currently make about 125k combined (not including the house) utilities/groceries run about total 650month. Feels like ur just barely making it. **just using 60k** How do you save to have that 6month emergency nest ? Or any other suggestions?