I am in month two of the cash envelope system. This month I added the Spending Log to my daily routine and things are going along so well. I am doing a great job!. my husband, on the other hand, is going a bit off the rails! We have had a few "sit down and discuss" times. I just have to find a solution for his need to buy me flowers and bring presents home to the kids at the end of a long business trip away from home. I don't want to make him stop the kindness, I just want him to pay with cash and not use the credit card! Any ideas? He travels once a month for business and is gone for a week each time! I have a side hustle that can supplement the expenditure, but it cuts into the amount of money I can use to pay off credit card debt. He never spends money outside of these trips.