Someone is always going to be doing better than you, and someone is always going to be doing worse than you. That's life. It's harder when it's family and you can't escape it, for sure. I feel it with my husband's ex, and even within my own family, with my siblings. I think it's a chance for us to grow in contentment in our own hearts. Whether I'm doing well or doing poorly, I can always choose the attitude of my heart. I'm far from perfect with this, but I do know that when I'm being GRATEFUL for what is, I really don't have a lot of longing for what could be or what was. I need constant reminders, though, so thank you so much for your vulnerable post! ❤️