Walk. away. now. I went through financial abuse at the hands of not only my mother, but 2 out of 3 of my brothers. collectively, those 2 owe me over $10K. I will never see it. my mom, bless her heart, passed in 2018. but. she stole my savings bonds before they matured, took all my paychecks in high school and spent them, literally leaving me to starve if not for my friends and conned her best friend bank teller friend to let her into my savings account (which was my escape fund) that I had been building. $600, poof, gone. even in adulthood, she did things like this. the last straw was in 05 when I lost my job, power was shut off, and I had a busted car. since I had nothing for her to take, she decided it was best to tell me she never wanted me. for your own sanity, for your peace of mind, cut. her. off. my mom not only raked me across the coals, she did it to my oldest brother too. and then he did it to me. repeatedly. it has taken me 15 years and cost me the relationships with my oldest children to get her out of my finances, among other areas of my life. so for your best interests, stop communicating with her and go back to therapy. don't let it get that far. she is going to fall, let her. not your problem, not your fault, not your bills. let. her. go.