*Update: Thank you all for taking the time to respond and offer some valuable advice. It is so hard to see someone you love struggle, but is even harder to witness them do it over and over again without learning the lesson. My only wish moving forward is to keep learning and become financially wiser so that we don't do this to our own kids in the future. * Sending you all love and gratitude * I need some advice please. My mom has been a financial mess ever since I can remember. Long story short she stopped paying her car insurance since last September so her driver's license got suspended today and she had to turn her license plates in. She won't be able register a vehicle under her name for 135 days, but she can obtain a restricted driver's license. We have 2 cars in our house and she has asked me if she can use 1 of our cars while the issue is resolved. Her work commute is 30 mins which would transIate to a 2 hour bus ride. We truly use both of our cars as we homeschool and I'm always driving the kids to classes and activities. I also work in the evenings so my husband would have to pick me up at 10 pm or later. My husband and I have made many sacrifices to pay off our debts. Including several side hustles. Last year when my mom asked me for money to pay off her cell phone bill I said no and suggested that she should find a second job to catch up. She got supper offended and mad at me for not helping her out since she is my mother. what would you do in her current situation? Would you let her use your car until she can drive again? Would you register her vehicle under you name and bite the dust and insure it under your name as well? (In NYS both have to be under the same name) Would you let her figure it out? Culturally, I was raised to believe that I should take care of my mother no matter what, but I find my self questioning this.