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I posted about a month ago about how my rent was going up to $1400 per month here in Western Washington. So many of you suggested that I look for a new place. Sooooo. I applied for a promotion. the position is in Ohio. I’m a single mom and its kind of scary but within my company, the only way to move up is to move usually out of state. My company would pay me to relocate. My interview is on Thursday and I think I have a good chance. I’d be working under a previous boss of mine who hired me here in Washington. I work in the grain/export shipping business which is dominated by men. But, this previous boss of mine really believed in me then so why not now? Right? I’m so nervous and excited  My rent goes up and I take a promotion and move across country alone with my daughter. I can do it right?  
I posted about a month ago about how my rent was going up to $1400 per month here in Western Washing

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+8 votes
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Yes, you can. Look into your HR benefits and see if they have Employee Assistant Program (EAP) including additional relocation support and tips if you move. It sounds to me like you do have a decent shot. Half the challenge is knowing someone and them trusting you to get job done. Good luck!  
+14 votes
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Absolutely, you can do it!  
+24 votes
by (530 points)
I live in Ohio, and my husband works for a company that also has a plant in Seattle. He says employees from Seattle come here and are so shocked at the difference in prices. You’ve got this!  
+20 votes
by (590 points)
You got this! What an amazing adventure it will be for you and your little one! Be fearless, and good luck at your interview!  
+47 votes
by (510 points)
Yes you can do it.  
+8 votes
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YES! You absolutely can!  
+47 votes
by (1.9k points)
You can do it! Ohio is a great place and inexpensive. You got this
+31 votes
by (2.5k points)
I’m moving to Ohio from California in two wks. It’s beautiful and much more cost friendly. I’m a single mom as well
+8 votes
by (940 points)
So exciting! I’m moving from California to Montana at the beginning of next month!  
+22 votes
by (1k points)
Yes! Good luck!  
+36 votes
by (880 points)
You can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens you! Good for you! You can only fail when you don’t try!  
+2 votes
by (340 points)
Yes Wow.  
+16 votes
by (540 points)
From a fellow Washingtonian, you can do it!  
+49 votes
by (830 points)
Moving from NE AL to Mobile, AL in the next couple of months and going from 4-5 bedroom house to a camper for several months to try to save as much as we can to buy a house and get rid of debt. Lord help us ☠️
+4 votes
by (2.1k points)
What an amazing adventure! Good luck, I’ll be thinking about you!  
+28 votes
by (1.4k points)
Girl. you go. So excited for you. ☺️☺️☺️
+43 votes
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You can do it! I live in Ohio and it’s a great place to live! Very affordable, people are friendly and helpful, you can get to most retail stores, restaurants or attractions within an hour or two of driving, and there are lots of great destinations for short trips within 6 hours! I work in education and know a lot about schools in Ohio if you need any info after you nail this interview!  
+46 votes
by (870 points)
This post made my heart so happy! You can do this! It will be hard. You may question yourself, a lot. It may not seem worth it. It is. Don't ever question yourself. You've got this
+5 votes
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You can definitely do it! Nothing is too big or impossible! Just believe and stay positive  
+31 votes
by (1.3k points)
Yes you can! You got this!  
+38 votes
by (730 points)
You've got this! My family is in the PNW too and considering a move as well. The cost of living is getting out of control here.  
+16 votes
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You got this!  
+5 votes
by (390 points)
You got this! Don’t be nervous!  
+37 votes
by (530 points)
Yes go for it! Good luck! ❤️
+16 votes
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You can do it!  
0 votes
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Best Wishes
+7 votes
by (480 points)
Girl you can do anything your heart desire! Go and get it   
+9 votes
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You can do it!  
+41 votes
by (1.1k points)
You can do it.  
+39 votes
by (540 points)
You got this!  
+26 votes
by (4.9k points)
You got this! What a great example of strength and determination for your daughter"
+35 votes
by (540 points)
You can do it!  
+20 votes
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Praying you get it  Good luck
+20 votes
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Yes you can!  
+30 votes
by (550 points)
Yes, you can!  
+9 votes
by (530 points)
Amen ! go for it !  
+23 votes
by (990 points)
You got this, good luck!  
+6 votes
by (2k points)
You are amazing! You are going to do great!  
+3 votes
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You got this. plus Ohio cost of living is so much cheaper so your rent won’t be as high unless you pick a mansion!  
0 votes
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Get it girl! Show your daughter that women are capable of grabbing life the ovaries and making it yours! It's a super scary thought, but do it and own it and have confidence every step of the way and you'll dominate!  
+32 votes
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You can do it!  
+51 votes
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If you end up near Columbus, I'll be your first friend  
by (1.4k points)
@rigsby yep, not too far! I actually work in Circleville, which is really close to Chillicothe!  
by (650 points)
I was gonna say the same thing! I am also in Columbus haha.  
+44 votes
by (1.6k points)
Ohio girl here. The cost of living is pretty cheap in most areas and Columbus has so many opportunities for housing, etc.  
+52 votes
by (1.1k points)
Sounds amazing. Congratulations.  
+32 votes
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You got this!  
+37 votes
by (1.5k points)
Congratulations ! You’ve got this!  
+54 votes
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Best of luck! You will get this promotion!  
+28 votes
by (560 points)
Speaking as an Ohio resident. Ohio is a wonderful place to live. winter isn’t the greatest but spring, summer and fall make it all worth it!  
+23 votes
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This sounds like the perfect win-win situation! And Ohio has much lower cost of living! Good Luck! ❤️❤️❤️
+30 votes
by (590 points)
You definetely can do it! You are a model for your daughter! Keep going! I will have an interview too tomorrow, hope it goes the right way, I need a second job to build our new emergency fund(used when my hubbie lost his job last year)fingers crossed  
+39 votes
by (600 points)
Soooo. how did the interview go?! You are so strong and wonderful. Your daughter will always remember that and she will be so excited to move especially if you involve her in the process too. Good luck!  
by (600 points)
@rigsby Good luck! You will be in my thoughts and prayers that everything goes great tomorrow!  
+21 votes
by (1.3k points)
Sounds exciting. Perfect timing.  
+2 votes
by (430 points)
You've got this girl! I live in Ohio and not only will it be far more affordable for you, but this great state has a lot of really cool things to offer and so many things to do within driving distance no matter where we choose to live. My dad always told me growing up that sometimes the only way to move up is to move out. Start packing your bags, this job is yours!  
+3 votes
by (470 points)
Goodluck! I'm rooting for you! ⭐ Sending you tons of good vibes!  
+36 votes
by (590 points)
Good Luck!  
+47 votes
by (1k points)
So excited for you! This could be an amazing opportunity! Sometimes we have to step out in faith and make a big change.  
+10 votes
by (3.6k points)
Yes you can!  
+11 votes
by (570 points)
Where in Ohio is the relocation? I was born and raised in Columbus and would happily offer some recommendations on places to explore and visit!  
by (830 points)
@rigsby No way! I am in Chillicothe! I’d love to talk to you any time if you have questions !  
by (890 points)
I live in the outer dayton area 1. 5 hour from chillicothe! Good luck! I love ohio  
+22 votes
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From one single mom to another, I just did this and it was SO worth it. I cried my eyes out when I did, but I wouldn't change it. We can survive and breathe here, and you're going to do amazing in Ohio! Good luck tomorrow!  
by (310 points)
Ohio is the absolute best! I can't stress how inexpensive, friendly and beautiful it is! I'm from Northeast Ohio and moved to central NJ, I miss home (Ohio) everyday!  
+42 votes
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Good luck.  you’ve got this!  
+54 votes
by (530 points)
What part of Ohio? I’m in Cincinnati. Cost of living is pretty decent.  
by (530 points)
Oh ok! Not too far! Good luck with the job!  
+43 votes
by (1k points)
You can do it! My husband, our son and I just moved 1200+ miles away from everyone we knew for a job for me.  
+4 votes
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Good luck
+45 votes
by (590 points)
You’ve totally got this! I travel to Ohio for work a few times per year. It’s a great state. Nothing beats the people in the Midwest-so friendly and welcoming. Lots of cool places to visit in Ohio!  
by (8.3k points)
@tole Cedar Point, Kings Island, Indian Burial grounds, Amish Country, Zoo’s, Lake Erie! So many places to go!  
+19 votes
by (610 points)
Good luck!  
+5 votes
by (520 points)
Best of luck! ❤️
+40 votes
by (2.5k points)
I moved to Ohio (Just north of Columbus) from Ca-li-FOR-nia! I love it, but I feel like I’d love anywhere! I wish you the best Mama! You’ve got this! It’s WAAAAYYY cheaper in Ohio!  
+45 votes
by (1.1k points)
Good luck! You got this!  
+38 votes
by (5.6k points)
Best of luck on your new adventure!  
+34 votes
by (2.4k points)
I did it about 7 years ago. I packed my car with whatever would fit, 4 year old in the back and hit the road with no family in the area. I started over from scratch. There were some small bumps in the road but things worked out. I got a higher paying job that i wouldn't have been able to get if I stayed(small town) and graduated college. You can do this!  
+17 votes
by (1.1k points)
Just keep telling yourself “I can and I will. ”
+50 votes
by (8.3k points)
I’d love to hear update! Keep us posted!  
by (8.3k points)
I’m in Idaho but have lived in Cleveland and Cincinnati!. We loved Ohio, it’s such a great place to raise kids.  
+52 votes
by (630 points)
You’ve got this!  
+31 votes
by (860 points)
****i will rise up****** love it sister. Yes, yes you will.  
+30 votes
by (560 points)
You can do it! It will be a fun adventure! Best wishes on your interview you’ve got this!  
+39 votes
by (540 points)
It will be a great change.  
+27 votes
by (600 points)
Thats awesome, where in ohio?  
+22 votes
by (570 points)
I'm halfway between Akron and Cleveland if you need something once you get the job here- realtors, daycares, pizzas.  Good luck!  
+34 votes
by (2.4k points)
You Can Do This!  
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