Sounds like you've got a case of the pain in the assinlawitious. Been there! Got the t-shirt. We normally have meetings once a month, where we drink and bitch about our in-laws, but those are postponed until further notice. I'm not trying to put myself into your business, but can you really not reason with your husband? If not, I'd pull out all the stops. Don't cook for him, hold out on giving him the sex, make him sleep on the couch. Give 'em hell! Use the power of the pussy!