How to be a person of value without knowing that much or having years of experience… This post means a lot to me. I struggled for years with the fact that I need to surround myself with high achievers… To find these 5 successful friends I can surround myself with the most, so I can be a great average… To be an accepted 19-year old whose value is accepted in the “elite circles”… Long enough I thought the only way to get there is with a bunch of knowledge & expertise. Because as most of you know, 7 & 8 figure entrepreneurs don’t really wait in front of your door to pick you up & let you be a part of their journey. Or am I wrong? Well, I was completely wrong with the fact that only knowledge & expertise can help me to surround myself with high achievers. You’ll get why in a second. Obviously, expertise & building a network is a great way to connect & crucial for success. But well yes, I didn’t have years of expertise & despite putting in dozens of hours of work to gain expertise – nothing really changed… I quit most of my relationships that weren’t of advantage for my business. Which was kind of hard for me with 19. Bunch of them were friends since school. Anyways… With luck, I got in touch with a mentor that taught me the importance of my energy level. The importance of a positive & giving aura. To be able to care about others & come from a place of concern. To be grateful & loving, so that I don’t stick in my head when having a conversation. Understanding that life isn’t about me – discovering my life purpose so I can serve a cause that is greater than me. Last but not least, understanding the growth mindset, building confidence & believing in myself. Working on these tasks every single day opened a bunch of new doors for me. No matter if I built a connection online or offline – I found it much easier to connect. In today's world where everyone gets judged, the depression rate is higher than ever, everyone has a hidden agenda & everybody tries to sell something to everyone… … it’s a fresh change when for once someone really cares & is able to spread positivity. For once someone that takes responsibility for what happening & always tries to come up with solutions to serve the greater cause instead of blaming others & complaining. This mind shift didn’t just allow me to connect with awesome influencers around the globe… After all, am I changing as a person. As more, I change/grow & as better I can serve that greater cause as better my own life gets. Financially, business-wise, expertise, relationships… To be able to put your selfish reasons aside & understand that life isn’t about you is a direct indicator of your success. Who agrees?
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