The lights that are controlled by 2 switches is called a 3-way, and your other one that is controlled by 3 switches is called a 4-way. If you don't want dimming capabilities and are just looking for on/off, I'd recommend an Inovelli switch or similar as it can use ordinary "dumb" switches in the other locations instead of requiring you to buy a separate add-on switch. If you want dimming from multiple locations, you'll need add-on switches at those locations