We're in a similar situation! It's my husband, me, and our 6 year old daughter. We total just over 4k net each month, and are currently living with my in-laws, the 3 of us in one bedroom. My husband works at Les Schwab Tire Center and they have good benefits & you can make a career there (really good retirement). Starting pay is a little low, but raises come every 6 months or so. I'm not sure if there is one near you, but maybe look into that!