So I need some advice. I’m fine with having my cc debt Cuz I’m paying off but not loading my cc’d all the way up again which was the problem in the first place, but I received my refund 6k which I already had a plan for but my mother yesterday pulled me aside to say to not spend it all because she always has to backpay taxes and she doesn’t want to dip into her savings for it. Now my dilemma is from the 6k I paid of 1k of cc debt that was under my stepdads name & 3k on my moms card which is concert tickets that’s where I had planned to use the other 2k on hotel and flights because the tickets are non sellable or refundable. Now I will have the money coming in slowly to cover that but there also flights and that worries me the most , especially since all the prices are going up as I go waiting. She also has no idea when she’s going to do her taxes or when she would pay that money back since 1k was aside for my daughters dental things. We have a shared property( both on the title) but I pay the gas water light internet & the kitchen remodel loan plus any house supplies like detergent toilet paper , paper towel & food every 2 weeks for the entire household (including my way older brother who doesn’t pay a dime) . Would it be fair for me to use what I have available now to pay for my flights now as planned and if she needs money just tell her this is what I have available? Or just pass her the remaining 2k as she asked & possibly screw myself on decent flight prices.