Speaking from experience, I was the only kid growing up in my friends group who didn’t have parents who paid for everything. and I learned A LOT from that. Now being 27, half of them are still living at home and can’t afford anything, the other half have moved out, but are still having mom and dad pay for everything, and blowing money on stupid things. I’ve bought my first cell phone cash out, I bought my first two cars, everything I wanted I bought myself and At 21 I bought a house. All because my mom let me make my own mistakes and taught me that things don’t just get handed to you, I appreciate everything she’s ever done for me, even though I don’t say it enough. (Ironic since it’s Mother’s Day) but If I we’re you, let her move out, but also stop paying for everything for her, her loan, her bills.