Ok here's what I'm going to try to start with and see how it goes. He has 4 jobs, which he can do up to 4x/week for 25 cents. This sheet is laminated so he can mark when he does them with dry erase marker. Sunday will be pay day. So he can earn up to max $4, but if he doesn't want to do them, we don't nag. They are expected to keep their rooms "tidy" so this is considered above and beyond cleaning, and he knows that and understands the expectation. 25% will go into save, 25% to give, and 50% into spend. He has a bank account and we will deposit his savings once a month.