Question

My current situation is my husband, daughter and I are renting my parents basement apartment for $500 a month. The apartment is 3 bedroom + office and 1 bathroom, laundry room, we have our own kitchen and huge living room. We have our 2 dogs and cat here as well as goats and chickens (they have acre property. ) I feel like it’s a great opportunity to save money for a few years and pay off debit- we have about $12k debt. But I can’t help to feel embarrassed for living with my parents like people are looking down on us. Would anyone else do something like this?  

Answer 1

I would! Currently we live rent free in a property owned by my in-laws sometimes I have felt inadequate compared to our friends because we are the only ones getting financial assistance from family. We have lots of friends that own there house , some are even living in their second house , or they go on lavish vacations , or they simply just pay rent for their own apartment and her we are not paying anything due our financial situation. And I know some of them may judge . But I remind myself it’s not there life it’s mine . And because it makes me feel better I remind myself that some of them are in more debt then me or that I don’t know their hardships and I also remind myself that me and husband are also late bloomers compared to some of them. My husband just graduated college 2 years ago where our fiends that own property graduated and started their careers 7 years ago. So Our time line is different and that’s okay and our financial goals are different too and that’s okay . It’s our life and we do what’s best for us .  

Answer 2

All day long sister! Point me In The proper direction! ❤️

Answer 3

We have a 2 bedroom bungalow on our property and we rent it out to friends atm while they are building their new house. It’s small but they are so grateful for the cheap housing, plus it helps us pay of some of our debt to. And we help each other with babysitting, meals, housework etc

Answer 4

It sounds like you have your own house basically, even if it is in their basement.  

Answer 5

Nobody else's opinions pay your bills! :)

Answer 6

Take a look around. You would be surprised at all the 'kids' and 'parents' who are living together these days. I moved in with my daughter and son-in-law in order to save money for my own house and to help them with their mortgage. And like others mentioned, tons of people all over rent basement apartments. Your landlords just happen to be related.  

Answer 7

I think it is great you can do that just enjoy it while you can memories will be made. I wish I had that when we were younger

Answer 8

There is nothing embarassing with families living together! In other cultures this is the norm and good for you guys for being able to live comfortably and save!  

Answer 9

You do what you have to do !  

Answer 10

I’m 26 and me and my 9 year old moved back in with my parents to save money! Been paying down my student loans and credit card while I’m here and just paid cash for a trip to Disney for all of us in July! I know people expect me to be out on my own but we’re fine with our current situation as it’ll put us in a better situation in the near future!  

Answer 11

I would love to! The opportunity to be closer to family (while have your own space) and save money sounds ideal to me!  

Answer 12

Hi, I just turned 35, I have three children and live with my mother. Don't feel embarrassed. Use this time to improve your life and maybe help them out along the way. Life is too short to be worried about what someone else thinks about how you saved money to get ahead.  

Answer 13

Absolutely I’d do it! You are lucky to have that option! Blessed to have family support! Not everyone has that.  

Answer 14

That actually sounds great. I would totally take that. You pretty much have your own space

Answer 15

Girl, I wish I could talk my fiancé into moving in with family again so we could pay all our debt off and save for a house. That’s a blessing for sure.  

Answer 16

Who cares what others think? Are you happy? Your helping your parents n your family is taken care of. Those that wanna talk - let them.  

Answer 17

Nope and why do they need to know it’s your parents? What’s wrong with saying you are renting a cool basement apartment? There’s no need to share that kind of detail with those who don’t need to know!  

Answer 18

Actually this generation, with the cost of housing, more and more are loving in with their parents. Also, parents are aging, adult children and their families move in. Its happening more than you think and grandkids keeps them young.  

Answer 19

Yup! Our story is a little different though, we were in the process of moving my dad in our basement so he wouldn't have the upkeep of his house and so he could retire early to get his knee and hip surgeries done mainly so I could help take care of him too, but he passed 2 months ago.  

Answer 20

If someone is looking down on you for this, they are probably just envious because it sounds like a great deal and an awesome opportunity to pay off debt and build savings.  

Answer 21

If it works, that’s a blessing. You get to see your parents everyday and your rent is a dream #. Don’t worry about what others think. they are probably jealous as hell that they do t have the same opportunity. #Enjoystuffingyourenvelopes!  

Answer 22

Girl my daughter and are renting a room from my uncle! It's hard to afford a place out here in So Cal as a single mom! Instead of feeling like a failure, I'm using it for what it is. and opportunity to get myself out of this hole I've dug! It's a gift! Take advantage!  

Answer 23

I would do it in a heartbeat! Debt free feels incredible! You got this!  

Answer 24

I would absolutely do that very same thing.  

Answer 25

Would they care if you were homeless in a shelter? I doubt it. You can’t live life wondering what others think. Do you boo.  

Answer 26

Heck yes I would especially since it’s your own personal space you don’t have to worry about being on top of each other’s or your parents invading in space. I haven’t lived with my mother since I was 19 so if I could do that and still see her every day that would be awesome! Everyone story is different you just keep writing your own!  

Answer 27

That’s such a great amount of space! The benefits of getting yourself out of debt and saving money outweighs the cons. Especially if it’s a positive environment. If my parents had space like that or any space for me at all I’d so be there!  

Answer 28

Heck yeah I would if it were an option! You’re paying bills and bettering your situation. There’s absolutely nothing to be ashamed about in that!  

Answer 29

Lmao. I wish! Who cares what anyone thinks?  

Answer 30

I wish I could rent a room or basement to crawl out of debt. Enjoy it and enjoy it

Answer 31

Lucky girl. That sounds like an amazing opportunity! Soak that up! It's your life, who cares? That is ideal rent! Most people in Europe live with their family until late 30's anyway, so consider yourself part of the "in" crowd.  

Answer 32

Who cares! You are BLESSED! ❤️❤️❤️

Answer 33

Holy cow, that's an amazing amount of space in an animal friendly situation! Love it! Can my husband and I move in when you are ready to get into your own space?  

Answer 34

I think you’re smart and if you can get along with your parents and live like that, who cares what anybody else thinks. My parents were still alive I’d have them live with me to or vice a versa. Enjoy best of luck Paying off the debt

Answer 35

I think it may seem embarrassing because of pride but believe me, you’re blessed! The fact that youre even able to rent a spacious space for 500 is amazing and it’s a bonus that it’s family- your daughter gets to be close with her grandparents  

Answer 36

Bravo to you! I think it is great and bet more people wish they had that opportunity. So many cultures believe in multi generational homes and there is so much that you all can benefit from with this arraignment. Enjoy!  

Answer 37

You won't feel in embarrased when you pay that debt off in months and start stacking the Benjamin's, embrace the blessings!  

Answer 38

Honestly, I wish I could have the same opportunity. You have it made as far as being able to pay debt off sooner and live in a comfortable space for so cheap. I wouldn’t think twice about what other people would think. It’s definitely not embarrassing as you’re reaching your goals.  

Answer 39

Nope. I would never live with family.  

Answer 40

Im happy to trade you places! You can come and pay my $2650 rent plus all of the utilities and I will be happy to say I live with your parents! Lol. if anyone ever says anything to you about your living situation ask them how much they get to save a month!  

Answer 41

Forget what other people think - in this and ALL situations  

Answer 42

I would if I had the choice, stop worrying about what others think, its none of your business what anyone thinks about you. Took me a long time to learn this but I’m all the better for it!  

Answer 43

Yes. We share home with my Mother in Law.  

Answer 44

We lived with my parents for 20 years in a shared expenses so we could all just kerp afloat. I felt like you, but in all honesty I miss that now, our boys who are teenagers miss it also. Go you. Do what's, best for you guys. Haters gonna hate, that's their problem.  

Answer 45

If I had the opportunity - yes I would. You could flip that and not even mention you are on your parents home. You can say that you maintain and live on a family property with the freedom to have goats, chickens and a comfortable enough lifestyle. I think anyone would choose that over paying high rent and being in debt for more than they need to be! And good for you! Save that money and continue on your debt free journey!  

Answer 46

I wish I could!  

Answer 47

Don’t feel embarrassed at all! What a fantastic opportunity. and you may have been called silly by those you think are currently looking down on you, if you hadn’t taken this chance! You’ll never please everyone. don’t try to please anyone at all except yourselves! Well done to you all. enjoy being debt free as it won’t be long now x

Answer 48

I would do this! Think of it like a duplex. And the price is amazing for what you get! I’d write my parents a thank you note every month with the rent check letting them know how they are positively impacting my life. You’d do this for your children one day if they needed it, right? What a great way for your parents to bond with their granddaughter and help their daughter in a meaningful way. Struggling to pay off debt in a 2 bed apartment without your animals is no badge of honor. You have an amazing situation!  

Answer 49

I would love to be able to do this with my mother.  

Answer 50

Remember these words. "Live like no one else NOW so you can live like no one else LATER! " -Dave Ramsey

Answer 51

Girl, stay and do what’s best for your family. It’s not like you’re living with them. You’re renting an apartment from them. Even if you were living with them, so what do what’s best for y’all

Answer 52

People that look down on you are not your people. Remember the only thing that matters is the end results for you and you family.  

Answer 53

That sounds amazing! You are so lucky to have that opportunity to stay there.  

Answer 54

Uh if my mom had space like this I totally would do it!  

Answer 55

We just moved my dad from a different state, we bought & house and split all the bills. we take turns buying groceries. Thankfully the house it set up to where we each have our own living room & bathrooms, of course Kitchen is communal. We went as far as setting up a checking account for our bills for the house we each add $ to the account during payday.  

Comments

Also my daughter is 17, she will graduate in May. We have told her to stay at home work go to collage and save money. She is welcome to stay as long as she works or is in school.  

Answer 56

My husband and I just moved in with my parents to help both parties out at the beginning of February. We both needed out of our previous living situations. They just bought a beautiful home with a pool and nice yard all with our input, and needed some help getting there financially, and we're in a reasonable debt repayment plan, but we're also in a place financially where everything helps.  

Answer 57

Let people look down on you. then when you're debt free laugh!  

Answer 58

Do what is best for your family and forget about what others think!  

Answer 59

What! I wouldn't think twice about what anyone else thinks. What a great situation, especially if you get along well with the family!  

Answer 60

Omg I would jump on that if we had that opportunity! Don’t be ashamed girl!  

Answer 61

Omg! Live there forever!  

Answer 62

Do it.  

Answer 63

No one who cares about you looks down on you. do what is best for you and your family  

Comments

We lived with our in-laws for 3 years. we are buying our house now and only have a mortgage and one car payment. our family and friends are happy for us.  

Answer 64

Listen hello I’m @flatfoot don’t never be embarrassed I feel like thank God you have your parents to fall back on in a difficult time like this it will get better if i had my parents alive I would definitely moved backed home for a while to catch up as well , Enjoy it Godbless !  

Answer 65

My husband (who is disabled) my 3 teens (2 have disabilities) myself, my service dog and bearded dragon are all living with my mom in a 2 bedroom 1 bath house. We have been here for 2 years since my husband in the last year and a half has been having surgeries and complications with said surgeries. Im the only one working. Dont be embarrassed be grateful that your parents are there to help you. We also dont have heat or A/C. We are in a small space but we are making it work. Ypu cant control how other people think about you. You do what is right for your family and dont worry about anyone else. Its not forever, its just temporary. Enjoy the time you have to be able to pay off your debt to be able to go off on your own again.  

Answer 66

I lived in a rv for a couple years and saved for a down payment on a home do whatever works for you and your family!  

Answer 67

Uhhh why be embarrassed. You literally have your own space! It would be no different if you rented a strangers basement out. Stay as long as you want and your parents are ok with renting to you! It’s no ones business you rent your parents basement. You literally rent out A BASEMENT APARTMENT. Plain and simple.  

Answer 68

It’s an apartment! Shouldn’t matter who the landlord is! Don’t stress over that. If I had that opportunity I would jump on it!  

Answer 69

In a heartbeat

Answer 70

Yes! Grateful to parents!  

Answer 71

I’d do it in a heartbeat! No one else pays your bills or pays down your debt, so don’t worry for a second what they think!  

Answer 72

Oh girl, appreciate it and DON'T feel embarrassed! It is the same as renting from another apartment, just a little cheaper! There is nothing to be ashamed of! I would do this in a heartbeat. Pay off debt, get a good bit of savings put back, and enjoy it! I'm sure your parents love having their granddaughter just a couple steps away too!  

Answer 73

I would do this in a heart beat to help my family. Who cares what anyone thinks. You are doing what is best for your family and in the long run you will be better off for it. You can accomplish more than those who do not have that advantage or who choose to live beyond their means.  

Answer 74

I would be all over that! dont care about what everyone thinks. do whats best for you and your family!  

Answer 75

Don’t be and don’t let people who don’t help you make you feel anyway. If your parents don’t have a problem with it then that is all that matters. If it going to help you and your family do it. People only talk when they have not been in your shoes. Hold your head up high and continue with your life. I wish my kids would come back home I miss them.  

Answer 76

I’d do it in a heartbeat! You pay your own way. Your daughter has 4 of the most important people in her life all close to her . That’s something you, your husband and your parents and your daughter will have to look back on for years! I think it’s amazing. If my parents had an apartment on our family farm that’s exactly where I’d be with my husbands and daughters  

Answer 77

Anyone who would look down on you for something like that obviously does not understand your situation. And like anything, if you are not educated enough to understand, then you are not educated enough to judge. It's hurtful when people are judgmental about things you know are for your own good, but that's all it is. Uneducated judgments.  

Answer 78

I am seeing this more and more. Domt be embarrassed, embrace it. Enjoy that time with your family.  

Answer 79

Of course I would! It is no different from renting an apartment from anyone else!  

Answer 80

What if your parents needed your help you would do it, it's ok you do what you have to do bottom line

Answer 81

We kind of do this. My mom bought her house and we live with her and split the mortgage.  

Answer 82

It’s your life and your business! Who cares what others think! It is probably good for your parents as well to have a good tenant!  

Answer 83

If it meant getting out of debt finally you bet I would and make the best out of it. Besides parents aren't around forever and that gives you extra special time with them. Who cares what others think.  

Answer 84

I would if my parents allowed it. You are saving for the future, your daughter and her grandparents are spending time together, and you all can be doing things to help each other in every way possible. What other people matter? ‍♀️ It sounds like a win win for everyone involved!  Oh and I have done this.  

Answer 85

Heck yes!  

Answer 86

I might for a year but for me space is huge. But who cares what others think. They aren't paying your bills.  

Answer 87

Girl, yes! Who cares what people think? It’s none of their business! You do you!  

Answer 88

Other people's opinions don't get you out of debt! Keep doing what's right for YOU! Good luck!  

Answer 89

If they’re not paying your bills, they can sod off

Answer 90

Don’t worry about other people girl. why worry? THEY DONT HAVE TO LIVE YOUR LIFE! Do what’s best for you sis!  

Answer 91

I know it’s hard to get away from the “fear of being judged by others”. But as soon as you can get over that fear, you start living YOUR life. The life for you and your family! You do what is best for you! Unless those people want to pay your bills, they have zero business in your life.  

Answer 92

I would do it in a heartbeat! What an awesome opportunity! If the subject came up, I’d just tell someone that we were living on family land. No one needs to know your business anyway’

Answer 93

You are blessed and in an enviable position. You are comfortable, surrounded by family and achieving your goals.  

Answer 94

Don’t feel embarrassed. Many people are not afforded the opportunity to be able to do something like that. If the situation works for both ends, take advantage. I’m sure you’re helping them out too. And it’s not permanent, remember that. Don’t let your ego take over what’s a great opportunity to get ahead!  

Answer 95

Hey, you're lucky! My husband, daughter and I live with my father-in-law in ONE bedroom. We pay him $200/month. We're paying off about 12k in credit card debt as well(we have car payments as well, but aren't as concerned about paying them off right away). We're hoping to have enough saved to move out this summer.  

Answer 96

I’d 100% do this!  

Answer 97

With that much separate space, I'd do it in a heartbeat! I love my parents and they've offered to rent out their downstairs to us for a fraction of our current rent but all the common areas are shared, and I just couldn't do it. Pay off that debt!  

Answer 98

I wish I could do this lol who cares what other people think. You’re making sacrifices for your family’s future, those are the people who matter.  

Answer 99

I could care less at who will look down on me for a decision I made for MY family. The people who may look down on you are the ones who only have $5 to there names and drowning in debt. If you care about others opinions, you will FOREVER be embarrassed in life.  

Answer 100

Absolutely! Remember you dont owe anyone an explanation for what you do with your life. Stay there as long as you can pay off your debt and then offer to pay more rent. Im sure your family likes having you there especially with grandkids.  

Answer 101

It may have already been said, but this is an amazing opportunity for your daughter to bond with grandparents. I lived with my Father in Law when my boys were very little and my husband had to be stationed overseas without us. It was a great opportunity for us to save money, but the best thing was the relationship the boys and their grandparents developed. It can definitely be a mutually beneficial situation to live with family. If you're happy with it, don't worry about what others think.  

Answer 102

Absolutely I would do this if I had the opportunity. Look down on you? I envy you.  

Answer 103

I would for sure!  

Answer 104

Oh man, if this was an option I WOULD TAKE IT! I love my parents and we get along wonderfully. If you don't think you will be at your wits end or if you get along, I'd be all about this option. Imagine all the money you will save for your dream home with a rent of $500/mohth

Answer 105

OH my gawd I’m kinda jealous! I wish we had that opportunity. Don’t feel Ashamed when you’re trying to save and pay down debt. Also. just make sure you have a SET date to Move out and make it a non negotiable. I did that with my husband and his parents when we finished college waiting for our townhouse to open.  

Answer 106

That's an AMAZING opportunity!  

Answer 107

You wouldn’t have to ask me twice! Just the relationship building is amazing! Cherish this for as long as you like! ♥️

Answer 108

Your choice: Pride vs. the opportunity to improve your family's life. You decide.  

Answer 109

You better believe I would do it! If they hadn't both passed away in their 40s  

Answer 110

In a heartbeat!  

Answer 111

Why tell anyone?  

Answer 112

Heck yes I would do it if I had the chance and I wouldn’t care who knows about it. I worry about me and mine, not what others think. I don’t strive for FB or IG perfect, I am accountable to myself and if I am satisfied with what I am able to accomplish, then I’m happy with that. As I tell my teenage girls, other people’s opinion of you is not your concern. it’s THEIR opinion. what matters is how you feel about yourself and only YOU can make yourself happy! Enjoy the acreage, the added time with family, and getting out of debt! Imagine the memories you’ll make with your kids in the process and the type of example you are setting. You got into a bind, and you figured a way out! Perfect role models!  

Answer 113

If you were living for free. maybe it would be an issue. but paying rent. it would be like any other landlord! Take the opportunity and run with it! Also, who cares what other people think? You’ll be debt free and they will still be broke!  

Answer 114

I would 10000% live with my parents or in-laws to save money & pay off debt. No shame. Be thankful you have that option!  

Answer 115

That’s an awesome opportunity! We had a similar opportunity a few years ago and I regret nothing! We wear able to save the money we needed for a down payment and get the house we wanted for our family.  

Answer 116

Yes do it. Dont mind others. U know better.  

Answer 117

I would absolutely do it and not feel any shame!  

Answer 118

Defense for sure. Don't let what other people think discourage you from doing what you need to do. Other folks don't pay your bills

Answer 119

You’re so lucky! I live in the basement apartment with my husband and one year old. It’s only a 1 bedroom and we split the rent. So we’re paying $1300 plus utilities. Still better than what our seattle rent was. No shame in living with parents. I’m actually proud we made this decision hoping it can help us own a house one day. It was the smart decision. Many people I know in their 30s are moving back with they’re parents. We can’t afford to live alone anymore. It’s sad.  

Answer 120

Live like no one else so you can live like no one else. don't worry about what everyone else thinks

Answer 121

I wish i can if i’m going to save & pay my debts why not & do not think about people , people always have something to comment or say

Answer 122

I would be HONORED to offer that to my daughter as an option in the future!  

Answer 123

Absolutely! Only mine say no!  

Answer 124

Live now like that so later you can live debt free and how you really want to live!  

Answer 125

Omg I’m planning on making this move this year! I’m a little embarrassed but it makes too much sense to turn it down. It’s only temporary and to be honest we will have less space that you, so you’re doing great!  

Answer 126

Do it!  

Answer 127

In a heartbeat I’d do it if ever a chance like that! Absolutely!  

Answer 128

Do what is right for you and your family. People who want to look down on others can always find some way to do it. It sounds like you have a great living situation. I'm assuming you get along with your parents. Enjoy the closeness and the great living situation and stop worrying about what other people think!  

Answer 129

Ummm i'd say you're extremely lucky!  

Answer 130

For sure!  

Answer 131

I think as long as it’s a good situation and there’s no family drama then I would stay there as long as I can. Don’t worry about where you feel you should be at or what others think. Keep doing you and working hard to get your family to a better place. Keep it up girl!  

Answer 132

Oh, I could careless what people will think if I was on your position. You do what is best for you and your family and their future! Yes, strive to be independent and one day be on your own but in the meantime work on paying your debt!  

Answer 133

If you're renting an apartment from them your not "living with your parents. " You're just getting a deal because they are your parents. No way I'd be embarassed about that! Also it sounds like a really awesome situation!  

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@directory exactly what you said!  

Answer 134

In a heartbeat!  

Answer 135

I would in a minute! I would love that!  

Answer 136

Why would you care. Jokes on them when in 2-3 years you have no debt while they are mortgages to the hilt. Live your own best life. Nobody knows where you live and how unless you want them to and those that love you don’t care where you live. Are you happy? Then screw what others think. Love your own best life! I always wanted a goat and chickens! So jealous lol

Answer 137

Jealous! Can I move in? Embrace the opportunity, especially with goat and chickens. We have both and i love them to death.  

Answer 138

My husband and I lived with my parents for three months before we found our mobile home. I’m proud of that. It’s called sacrificing.  

Answer 139

OMG @trebizond you are doing the right thing forget about what others think they don’t pay your bills. anyway I did the exact same thing and just 2 weeks ago I bought my beautiful dream house. (just stay on track with your budget and you will be in a good position before you know it)

Answer 140

People who have this opportunity are lucky if it works out for everyone. Idk why people look down on it so much.  

Answer 141

Yep! Don’t worry about what people think of you. That’s their business, not yours. In the meantime, you’re blessed with an advantageous situation that’s going to be better for your family. That’s what matters.  

Answer 142

Sounds awesome

Answer 143

Girl don't feel bad, do whatvis best for you and you're family. My husband and I and our 2 kids, are living with my parents. So far we've paid about $15, 000 debt last year. Have $13, 000 go. Once we are done we're gone.  

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@proteinase yes!  

Answer 144

Use this as a stepping stone and get things together. Who wouldn't want the chance?  

Answer 145

Family of 5 here, we lived with my parents for years and honestly we all loved it! My dad and husband both work out of town during the week and it helped my mom and I a lot to be there to support eachother and it also gave me flexibility with the kids.  

Answer 146

Dude, if my parents had a basement, I would be living in it. Take advantage of this fortune and save every penny!  

Answer 147

Don’t even think twice about it! It’s the smartest most amazing opportunity! Good for you! Stay the course sugar!  

Answer 148

Don’t be embarrassed. Keep going

Answer 149

You rent an apartment and your parents happen to own the building  I don’t see a problem with it.  

Answer 150

You are taking care of your family, THAT is what's important. not what others think. You are also helping your folks out, so what is there to be ashamed of?  

Answer 151

You aren’t living off of your parents. You are paying rent. I don’t see anything wrong with it. It’s actually a smart idea to be debt free eventually and a lot faster because you would definitely be paying a lot more to stay some where else and remain in debt if not go even further in debt. Not to mention it’s a great opportunity for you and your children to spend as much time as possible with your parents. The people looking down on you only want something to talk about and wish they had an opportunity like this! Good luck hun!  

Answer 152

My husband and I and our kids moved in with my parents in October. Nothing to be embarrassed about. It happens.  

Answer 153

We are doing this  

Answer 154

Im jealous! Id do this on a beat if i could.  

Answer 155

That’s great! Shouldn’t feel embarrassed at all. If so do this in a heartbeat if I could lol

Answer 156

Score! Making money moves!  

Answer 157

Omg no dont be embarrassed you've got a plan

Answer 158

You are blessed to be able to do that! Do what’s best for your family! Sometimes sacrifices are necessary for growth! ❤️

Answer 159

Ppl say, don’t be embarrassed, yet you still will feel it. From my perspective, only accept this if you know you’ll hunker down and pay off your depb lickety-splits. Then you can They’re great to help you out and being debt free is worth any temporary uneasiness.  

Answer 160

I sure would. You aren't living with your parents, you are renting an apartment.  

Answer 161

I don’t understand the stigma of living with parents. In most places in the world extended families live together. It seems like the perfect situation that you help them with their bills and use the existing space. I would stay as long as you can!  

Answer 162

Everybody needs help sometimes and it is going to allow you and your family to be put in a better situation down the road, enjoy the break on the rent! I'm sure that your parents love you enough to want to help even if it's just to allow you and your husband to catch up on the bills and to save for your own home. With the price of things you are also giving them a little extra cash a month, I'm sure it helps them a lot as well. So you are helping each other out.  

Answer 163

Yes, don’t worry!  

Answer 164

My boyfriend and I live with his parents in a basement apartment too! We don’t give a shit about what people think, we got bills to pay and money to save  ‍♀️ (it’s also common in my area) We have a lot of friends who live in the basement apartments of their parents homes. It’s the best option since we live in an expensive area Also, His parents don’t mind us living with them either so it works out!  

Answer 165

Who cares what people say. It’s not like you’re dependent on them entirely. You found a great option to save money to help get yourselves out of debt. Dave Ramsey says “If you will live like no one else, later you can live like no one else”

Answer 166

I would do this in a heartbeat if I had the opportunity! It would be incredible to be able to pay off things faster. Having your own bathroom and kitchen are key along with the animals having a cozy home. Don’t feel embarrassed!  

Answer 167

Ain't nobody's business!  

Answer 168

I'll live with your parents! Cherish your time together while you have it! Life is short

Answer 169

Omg. I would do this in a heartbeat if I had the opportunity! Don’t listen to outsiders, you have a goal and are doing what you need to reach it. Good for you guys!  

Answer 170

Moved back in with my parents to go back to school end of 2015, still living with my parents to pay off debt from going back to school and I'm 34. My sister just broke up with her boyfriend and they are selling their house and she might be moving back in with us as well. She is 30. My parents are totally fine with us being back at home and it makes financial sense. Remember it won't be forever and don't worry about what anyone else thinks.  

Answer 171

Dont feel bad. You are doing what's best for your family.  

Answer 172

Don’t even worry what other people think of you, you are doing what’s best and right for your family and that’s all that matters! You’re awesome for taking this opportunity (because that’s definitely what it is, an opportunity! ) to better your financial life for yourself and your family!  

Answer 173

Live like no one else now, so you can LIVE like no one else later  

Answer 174

Oh geez. i think its a normal scenario. power to ya. My situation is that I'm an empty nester. and i knew for me to save. i would need a drastic change to my living needs so I'm renting a room . so whatever it takes to get to where you need to be. do it.  

Answer 175

With the alternative being, NOT being able to properly care for your family, I know that you'll choose the right decision. Not too many years ago, multiple generations all lived together. It was the way.