Question

Hello moms, I'm looking for some advice. My son has his 4 month well visit at the end of this month. I'm really scared to take him. What should I do? We go to Abc Pediatrics and I called them and they told me that they are taking precautions and sanitizing etc but I'm still so scared. He will be getting his 4 month vaccines and ABC receptionist that I spoke to said I can't delay the vaccines at a later date. I'm thinking of making my 4 month old baby wear a mask or like put his blanket on his face for added protection. Am I totally nuts for wanting to put on a mask/blanket on my baby during his appointment? What would you do?  

Answer 1

That is an outright lie that you can't delay the vaccines.  

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@jacobina I’m so sad that doctors are telling people that, especially during this time.  

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I could never trust a doctor who lied to me, and this is such an obvious one. I'm shocked and appalled.  

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@jacobina especially since vaccines can and will weaken their little immune systems temporarily which is the LAST thing you want during a time like this

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@redeem I know they don’t long term, but why do babies run fevers after vaccination? Its because their bodies are fighting off the small amount of antigens in the vaccine. Also why they don’t recommend vaccinating already sick children

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@jacobina it wasn’t a doctor who told her this, it was someone answering the phone. The pediatricians at this office are very good, and I have spread vaccines out with them in the past as long as we had a plan and not delayed too long.  

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In the very least, a complaint against the receptionist is warranted then. I don't play around like that, though. Either the receptionist is representing what the doctor wants, or they don't. Either way, it's a very poor reflection on the entire office.  

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@jacobina I know that if you delay or spread out, you can’t do it in an additional dr appt, it has to be a nurse appointment after that, but yes , she should mention that to the doctor. I suggested she call and ask to have the doctor call her back anyway, because they are also doing tele-health appointments I heard.  

Answer 2

Of course you can delay! He's your child. If you don't feel comfortable taking him in, it's absolutely your perogative to delay the visit.  

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@whirlabout10 it breaks my heart that some moms don’t realize that they are in charge of their child’s health  

Answer 3

I was thinking of canceling my 4 mo appt next month. I’m just really afraid to bring my baby inside anywhere or close to people.  

Answer 4

Ours is only seeing urgent cases and only one in at a time so were holding off right now until summer

Answer 5

I’m in the same situation. My son should go for his 12 month check up in two weeks. I understand how important the vaccines are to have on schedule, but I’m also worried about bringing him in. It’s also not clear when this will be over. it’s not like I can just push it a week, it would be more like months.  

Answer 6

You can delay vaccines all you want. I wouldn’t go at this time. If your dr says no delay in vaccines during this time I’d find another dr. 4 month vaccines aren’t going to make or break babies immunity. A couple more months in between shots is not worth corona now.  

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@dogooder I’m in the same boat but I’m struggling to find info that proves this. We have family that are docs that say go get them. Do you have any links or arguments to support not going during this virus mess?!? Logic tell me I shouldn’t but my docs are saying you must go!  

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@twotone21 your family of drs are told to always promote every vaccine on time. It’s not necessary. Lots of research out there as to why but we all have to do our own looking  

Answer 7

We’re in the same boat with both my 2 year old and 4 month old. I would just delay if it was only my 2 year old since his vaccines/checkups are far apart now, but I worry about messing up my 4 month old’s vaccines, especially if this goes awhile.  

Answer 8

I never scheduled my sons 2 month well visit. Our office is only taking sick kids now so it’s not worth it to me. When this is all over we’ll catch up.  

Answer 9

I took my girl to her 12 month appointment last Mon. Her doctors office Is taking sick patients at one location and check ups/vaccines/etc at another location. I still went with out Appt because I don’t really know how long any of this will last for, it could get way worse quickly and not want to have to take her out then.  

Answer 10

They will probably cancel for you. We are not doing any "well visits" in my clinic

Answer 11

They will probably check your and his temp, then have separate wait areas for sick and well people. I went to two doctor appointments, felt comfortable at both.  

Answer 12

I was supposed to take my daughter for her 6 month this week, I’m postponing it. I dont feel like it’s worth the risk. You can absolutely delay his vaccines if you want to! I

Answer 13

Similar worry here. I’m supposed to go in for my baby’s one month appt and my daughter’s 2 year checkup next week and I don’t know what to do. I did a telehealth visit for his two week checkup because I was worried. I don’t think there’s a right answer. I’d also like to make sure he’s doing well and all is fine by bringing him in, but I’m so worried about the risk for him and my toddler.  

Answer 14

I’ve been to ABC and they have the clinic divided in half down to separate entrances. Staff doesn’t even work the two different sides. I felt 100% safe. I have our 4mos soon and I’m going because I don’t want to mess up the vaccine schedule. Do what you feel best about.  

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@tremann they also have the waiting room emptied out - you call from the parking lot when you get there and then they tell you when the room is ready, go upstairs and walk right in - no contact with other patients

Answer 15

You can delay. with both my kids we were on an alternate schedule for vaccines (we did get all of our vaccines - just one at a time so I could see if there were any reactions - I never liked the idea of giving 3-4 vaccines at a time) if your peds office is telling you that you can’t delay or reschedule bc you’re looking out for your child’s health I think I may be searching around for another pediatrician. However that was the receptionist you were talking to not the Dr. see if you can have the dr call you and address your concerns and talk about the pros and cons. But don’t let the office bully you into something you’re not comfortable with. Good luck mama stay strong and be safe!  

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@discoverer5935 this!  the office staff can tell you whatever they want! It’s your child your choice! I delayed my twins vaccines after 2 months as I felt they weren’t behaving right after them. I do one vaccine at a time now so I’m behind but also denied 9 months so I’ll catch up eventually. I’ll be delaying their 1 year appt until this mess ends. not worth it to lower their immune system with vaccines.  

Answer 16

I took my daughter in for her 9 month check up last week. I waited in the car and called and they told me to come right back and we went straight to a room. Most offices are dividing up the day between well visits and sick visits and completely sanitizing in between. I think you’re safe to go in and since we don’t know how long all this will go on I think it’s good not to miss a visit

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Plus it’s very important the your baby gets the growth and weight and milestone check to make sure everything is going as it should. If this were just a month I’d say wait but I think we’re looking at June/ July before things are even somewhat normal again

Answer 17

They are taking lots of precautions and it’s important visit so I would take him. This will likely only get worse before better so I wouldn’t delay personally. Can totally mask him if feel better about it, shower and change clothes afterwards, hand hygiene, only person you will come within 6feet Of will be doctor who likely will be wearing a mask

Answer 18

As a mom of adults and sister of a doctor, I’ll share my wisdom. NEVER, EVER take the receptionist’s (or even nurse’s - if different than you’ve discussed previously with your doctor) opinion as fact. They are gatekeepers. You must be your child’s advocate. You must question (as you are) things that don’t make sense. I currently see a doctor in my brother’s practice; she’s awesome. However, the runarounds and/or misinformation I have received from support staff (rampant everywhere sadly) over the years always gets reported back to brother and my doctor, so these situations don’t happen to others! I can’t stand any level of stupidity. Lol If I were in your position, I would insist upon a call back from the doctor to discuss your child’s needs - no one else. If the office is set up for a video appt, that may be a good alternative, too. Best wishes!  

Answer 19

I took my son for his 6 month well visit last week. They are following a protocol. You wait in the car till they call you upstairs. The doctor told me they haven’t seen any sick patients for past one week. They are right about the vaccine schedule. One off timing sets everything off. However it’s completely your call.  

Answer 20

Yes take him. The recommendations are for any child under the age of two to continue going to their well check ups. Their vaccinations are very very important at this age.  

Answer 21

You have a choice mama! Don't let them think you don't! Lots of people delay vaccines (like if their kid is sick etc) and get them at a later date. Go with your gut and don't let them scare you. Also as an RN I just want to inform you that getting a vaccine now will lower your son's immune system while he's building antibodies to the vaccines he's been given. I personally would not advise anyone to get vaccines at this time because we need our immune system’s to be at full strength. But whatever you choose, know that you DO have a choice and your his mom for a reason. You know what's best for him!  

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@myxomatosis  

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@myxomatosis yes this ❤️

Answer 22

I’m taking my son to ABC on Thursday for his 2mo vaccines/checkup. If I feel worried while we’re in the waiting room, I’ll throw a blanket or two over his car seat.  

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@katharyn they don’t even use the waiting room right now. You wait in your car and they call you to come straight in to a room. It’s wonderful.  

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@tremann oh wow, how smart!  

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@katharyn congrats on the little one.  

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@tremann thanks  

Answer 23

Some pediatric practices are having designated ‘Well’ office locations where they don’t accept anyone with any type of symptom so they can try to keep it is safe as possible for children that just need their regular check up and shots.  

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@countable that’s how our old practice is doing it now!  

Answer 24

If u are more uncomfortable going, dont. listen to your little voice.  

Answer 25

I take my son to ABC as well, he has an appointment on Tuesday & we are going. When you arrive, you call them & if they are ready for you, you will go right up, directly into a clean sanitized room that NO sick children have been in (they are keeping sick children in separate rooms & they use a completely different entrance as well. ) If a room is not ready for you, you will wait in your car until they call you to come up. As far as them saying you cannot postpone the vaccinations. I would call back & talk to someone else because that’s simply not their rules. I hope I eased your mind a little with information I was given! Whatever you feel comfortable with is the right decision!  

Answer 26

I took my daughter to her well 4 month visit last Friday and it was at Good Sam as they had closed their Plainfield and Naperville locations at this time. They are only taking well visits. She got her vaccines and only one parent can go in. I used the stroller and covered her going in and out. Everything was fine.  

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@hole8068 This is good to know, we go to the same practice and rescheduled to the DG office as the Naperville one will be closed when our appointment originally was. I didn’t know if they were only taking well visits now or what, thanks for sharing your experience!  

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@linares no problem! My husband and I think it was a necessary decision to get them done despite everything happening because it can be so easy to fall behind those immunizations in the first year!  

Answer 27

We had our 4 month olds appt at ABC on Tuesday. You call when you arrive and they let you know which room to go straight to, no waiting room. They also ask if you or anyone in your home is sick or coughing. No checking in at the front desk. The office is split between well/sick. We were in and out. I felt perfectly fine taking her and glad to keep her on schedule. They will call you in advance to ask only one parent attend.  

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@ostracoderm Martinez did the nurse and Dr wear a mask? How did they do baby weight and height? Since it's such a tight space where they weigh babies there is no way you can be 6 feet apart (social distancing rule).  

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@syllabify everything in the room was normal except the nurses and doctor P stayed seated near the door vs close to us as they normally are. We were within 6 feet at times when necessary.  

Answer 28

I went to ABC for my son's 4 year check up a week ago because he was due for shots. We went at 7:40am so we were the very first and only ones in at that time. They also had us call first, so we came up and right in to the room. It's such a tough decision to make. But I totally felt safe and was glad I went and had it taken care of because I don't know how long all of this will last.  

Answer 29

I initially cancelled my son’s 4 month appointment when this was all starting (March 17) and then learned it was recommended to keep them on schedule with their vaccines. So I rescheduled and had my husband take him bc only one parent was allowed and I have big anxiety about going out in all of this!  

Answer 30

I also think about it this way, what happens when daycares open up again? Are we going to have them full of kids off the recommended vaccine schedule. Will certain vaccines have to have the series start from the beginning again? I’d rather stay on track. I know it’s personal choice but at some point, my choices will have an impact on other kids.  

Answer 31

Why can’t you delay the vaccines? Of course you can! I would definitely wait.  

Answer 32

They will likely cancel it for you.  

Answer 33

You can ALWAYS delay vaccines ❤️

Answer 34

I would wait- you can delay them - we had to do this when my son was sick for a vaccine appointment. It’s not worth the risk in my opinion

Answer 35

It’s your baby. You CAN delay the vaccines if that’s what you want to do.  

Answer 36

Yeah honestly that would piss me off if they told me that I couldn’t delay the 4 month shots.  My son was scheduled for his 6 month last week. I asked what their guidelines were for non emergency appointments and they said they were rescheduling for after May 18. So that’s what I rescheduled for. 6 months includes shots too. It’s not a big deal. It just means all of his future shot appointments have to spaces accordingly.  

Answer 37

Our girls are older, but I’m taking my twin girls to their 2 year on Wednesday. Our pediatricians office isn’t seeing anyone with respiratory complaints. And they’re sanitizing everything. I made masks for them. But if they were 4 months I’d second guess going.  

Answer 38

It’s totally your choice! The recommendation is to stay on schedule and continue well visits under 2 years because the vaccines and checking on their growth are important. But ultimately it’s your call. My 2 month appt is next week and I am going even though I am nervous. But I trust my doctor’s office and know they are taking precautions. I scheduled the first appt of the day so the office will be totally clean and no one else will be there. Ultimately while yes covid is a concern, who knows how long this will drag on. And diseases like pertussis are still going around too. I don’t want him to be exposed to something else that’s even more deadly for infants. Plus I know that I will be sending him to daycare eventually when this is all over so I don’t want his shots to be delayed because then all other shots are delayed, which means he is at risk for longer after we go back to normal life.  

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Oh also, please do not put a mask or blanket on baby’s face. Babies that young don’t have the strength to breathe through a mask. I would recommend leaving baby in his car seat and using a car seat cover or placing a blanket over the car seat. And just take him out of the car seat for the actual exam.  

Answer 39

I took my two month old. We're trying to battle a virus that most recover from (especially our little ones) and I don't want to risk the diseases that we get vaccines for that are far worse. I was still nervous too but My pediatricians office took every precaution and made me feel better

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@central297 McAlister I was thinking about this today. I totally understand the fear surrounding covid (heck, I called my pediatrician twice to ask if I should still bring baby in for the appt). But I do worry that we are going to see a surge in pertussis and other diseases once the shelter in place is lifted because so many people are delaying. It makes me nervous.  

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I took my 2 month old for his shots at the very beginning of this. And will take him for his 4 month as scheduled. Vaccines are important. Look at what is going on and tell me they aren't. I took my 2 month old for the first am appointment, and everything went perfectly.  

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@dull4474 that may be a legitimate concern! Yikes I thought we had enough to worry about  

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@central297 McAlister 100% this. The thought of exposing my baby to pertussis isn’t a chance I’m willing to take. We go for our 6 month shots at the start of May and I won’t skip those either. Measles has been going around and that’s not something I’m willing to risk either.  

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@central297 McAlister how did you bring baby into the appt? Did you carry the car seat or use the stroller? Or baby wear? I’m trying to decide what to do to with mine to minimize exposure, and I’m just curious what you did.  

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@dull4474 I still had my winter cover on the car seat So i zipped that up and clicked the carseat into the stroller. I used my elbow to push all of the automatic door openers and the elevator buttons  

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@atencio yea those are the really scary ones! I'm grateful for the vaccines we have!  

Answer 40

I’d wait

Answer 41

You can totally delay them, they just might not keep you as a patient but I’d be surprised if they did that with the current state of things! I just took my son for a yearly checkup and my newborn for her 1 month visit. I did keep her covered up and close to me. We felt very safe to come in due to all of the extra safety measures our pediatrician’s office has put in place (no waiting in the waiting room, only one family in at a time, only well visits in the morning, sanitizer and hand washing everywhere, PPE worn by all staff).  

Answer 42

They have two different doors to go in one sick one well - you wait in car until the call you up - he is so little he won’t be out crawling around - wear a mask yourself ( I believe in vaccines - imagine him not getting the ones he needs now - look at this stupid virus) I would do it. They are doctors and taking the right precautions - wash your hands and change close when you get home

Answer 43

Ask if you can wait in your car, when they are ready for you they can call you in from your phone, someone should open doors for you and you can go straight back to the room. Make everyone wash hands in front of you. Then some should walk you out. Have sanitizer in car to clean hands then wash when you get home before touching baby

Answer 44

My pediatrician said that if we start postponing vaccines then we can start entirely new issues ‍♀️ i took my son and it was so empty there anyway. But also my sons office is not accepting any sick pts.  

Answer 45

Call you dr.  

Answer 46

Do NOT put his blanket on his face. His blanket shouldn't be anywhere inside the pediatrician's office. It will hold onto the germs like crazy. And please never put a blanket over your baby's face. there is a chance of him not being able to breath properly. If you dont feel comfortable, delay the appointment. If you want the vaccines done now, take him and then wash everything once you get home. Change clothes and bathe the baby and yourself.  

Answer 47

I took my son in for his 4 month visit a couple weeks ago (DuPage medical group). I wore him in a wrap (so I didn’t have to put his car seat down), didn’t sit, had them bill my copay so I didn’t have to give my card/sign papers, and brought in my own towel to lay on the exam table that I then threw away in the room. There was nobody there anyway for sick visits and everyone was taking all precautions. I wouldn’t put a mask on a baby - it can make it hard for them to breathe. Just wear him or carry him facing you with a blanket around him. I knew it was important to get my son his shots to prevent deadly childhood diseases.  

Answer 48

Not go to appointment

Answer 49

I myself would take extra precaution and go. only because his vaccines. Do you still have the winter car seat cover? Maybe put it over his seat when you go in?  

Answer 50

I would ask to have the doctor call you back and work out a date you’re comfortable with. The doctors at ABC are really good. They might also want to do a tele-visit and then have you do a quick nurses appt for the vitals and vaccines on a date you can be more comfortable with.  

Answer 51

If you are not comfortable with going, do not go. It is your child and so you get to make the decisions. We also go to that practice and you may want to request to talk to your child's doctor or the nurse in charge. You may get a different answer. But ultimately it is your decision.  

Answer 52

DO NOT TAKE HIM OUT. Please. Stay home. They can do a video appt.  

Answer 53

Don't take him. WORST DECISION TO SHOOT HIM UP WITH TOXINS NOW! Cancel. Lie and say you had to leave town. To weaken his immuine system now is INSANE. Switch doctors too.  

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@central297 McAlister I’m also sharing for anyone else who may be reading our thread ❤️ my whole point is just that I don’t think delaying vaccines by a couple months is worth the risk of COVID. Especially being that a 9mo just died of it in our area  this too shall pass and I’m sure babe could easily get fully caught up on immunizations. And sweet babe would be protected till then by his nursing mum! (If he’s nursing of course). But yes, I agree that we won’t agree! Have a great week and stay healthy! ❤️❤️

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Ps, This whole time I was just backing up my original claim that vaccines do temporarily affect immune systems which was at one point claimed as “misinformation. ” And arguing against the point that vaccines don’t temporarily make your body weak which is what we were originally discussing ❤️ I know your main point turned to covid is less scary to you than the other vaccine-able diseases and I get that! Every parent has to make the choice they think is best for their family (I know we agree on that! ). That’s just not where this started and I wanted to tie up that loose end. Hope that makes sense!  

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@abattoir my ped’s office called me today and is delaying my daughter’s 9m appt until her birthday since she’s up to date on her vaccines right now, so that’s definitely not true that only an anti-vax dr would say it’s okay to not stick to the schedule

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@finality94476 I know. But you were never actually did back it up with any research. So its your every right to state your opinion for anyone who wants to hear it, but it is your theory. Its not necessarily a bad theory, its just not proven information, which is an important distinction. We do agree that everyone is just doing their best and we all want what's best for our kids. Here's to hoping this passes soon

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@central297 McAlister Until I saw research proving my theory was false, I think it’s just common sense. I don’t need an in-depth published study to know that running into a wall would hurt  the hard thing is there has never been a study on how 6 vaccines against 9 different diseases given at once affect anyone/anything. So we have to use our best judgement and common sense to make the right choice for our families. Best wishes to you and your family! ✌

Answer 54

You are the mom. You do what you're comfortable with. And yes you can delay his 4 month shots.  

Answer 55

I would check with American Academy of Pediatrics to see what they recommend. I like making informed decisions instead of emotional decisions.  

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@dull4474 Thanks for the update! Good questions for our Pediatrician prior to making our decision whether or not to go to our 18 month well check.  

Answer 56

My daughter 6 month is up but I called and move it to the end of this month. It's ok miss it by a month or 2.  

Answer 57

You should only do what you are comfortable with. I’m taking my girl to her 4 month appointment on Monday so she can get her vaccines. My mother in law made us masks to wear including a mini one for my girl. If you aren’t comfortable or it’s causing you too much stress, don’t go.  

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@redeem please don't put a mask on your 4 month old. This is very very dangerous! I would recommend keep the baby in the car seat and cover it up with winter cover.  

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@espinoza we have a car seat cover. The mask is actually more like a bib. It’s just cute, not real functionality

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@redeem just please do not consider putting anything on his face (anything that would block his nose&mouth).  

Answer 58

You can delay ! I spaced my kids out as I was comfortable with. Do what your gut tells you is best. If you don’t think this timing is right go with it

Answer 59

We go to abc and for some reason my daughter is always sick around the time her vaccines are due and I always reschedule

Answer 60

First do not put a blanket over your child's head that is very dangerous. Second when you're asking for medical advice please talk to your pediatrician your pediatrician knows things, 3rd yes vaccine should not be pushed back my pediatrician told us several times after having two 2 hour conversations on the phone with him cuz I was in the same boat you were scared to bring my child in. Both conversations he had told me a, the chances of him getting anything in a pediatric office nowadays because of the precautions that they take is slim to none and b, pushing back your vaccines you let your child be at more risk for other preventable diseases when your pediatrician says that the vaccines can't be pushed back it's not necessarily that they can't be pushed back but by pushing them back you push all his vaccines because at their age they come in series you have to have one before you can have the next one and so forth as they get older but again please please please do not ask for medical advice on the internet talk to your doctor if you don't feel comfortable with your doctor then they shouldn't be your doctor.  

Answer 61

I don’t think anyone who has posted on this thread is an MD or DO. Please just call your doctor and relay your concerns to them. They will offer medical advice.  

Answer 62

We have our 4th month visit next week. I called to cancel and they offered to have it over the phone. They asked me, to weight him and take temp. before the call. If they didn't offer that, I would have canceled the appointment. If they say, you can't delay vaccines, consider finding a new pediatrician, because that's B. S.  

Answer 63

You can absolutely delay! That kind of dishonesty is a red flag for sure. Do what you are comfortable with.  

Answer 64

It depends on the vaccines. I had a shingles shot in November, the second shot needs to be within 6 months. Find out what shots. But at a minimum put a scarf or mask on the baby and yourself. I go to ABC as well. they are great. Mask just to keep out . just in case

Answer 65

Vaccines cause an immune response. If your immune system is busy making antibodies for the multiple diseases that your baby is injected for, it has less energy and to handle anything else that "slips in the door". It is not wise to vaccinate when a child is ill, so why is it wise to vaccinate when there is a serious risk of illness? Coronavirus seems to affect children/infants less, but when your immune system is busy doing one thing, it is less effective at anything else. And to say that you cannot delay is a flat out lie. I wouldn't go anywhere that I am not told the absolute truth.  

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@gudrin YES! This!  

Answer 66

Do what you feel is right. I personally would not be doing any shots right now and weakening his immune system.  

Answer 67

Also with them telling you you can't delay, that's their practices choice. You can definitely delay. The insurance companies have made it where doctors have to pay a certain amount if not enough children vaccinate in their offices. It's the reason i had to switch pediatricians. I will not let anyone tell me what i can or cannot do with my body or my child's just because money is behind it.  

Answer 68

They absolutely can delay - it just might mess up their total patient compliance percentages and reduce their bonus for having patients up to to date. If you are uncomfortable taking baby out and it's just for a well baby visit - there's no concerns for growth rate, etc - you absolutely can schedule later. Measure head circumference, height, and weight at home to ensure baby is growing well and done (I also use ABC ped and I skipped our 2yo well visit without hesitation)

Answer 69

Ask ABC what systems and precautions they have put in place. For instance, my pediatric office has separate entrances & separate exam rooms for symptomatic (with anything) vs. routine. They also do not allow siblings in the office. They don't use the waiting room, etc. Also many sick kids are doing tele-doc appointments and not going into the doctor's office. For instance my son has a sinus infection and he got his nasal spray and antibiotics over tele-doc. Do what you are comfortable with but definitely you have a right to ask questions about what precautions the office has in place so you can know exactly what your assessed risks are.  

Answer 70

You can delay. We go there as well and I’m really surprised that this is the response that they told you. Doesn’t seem right at all

Answer 71

I’m not a Dr but I am a mom of 5 kids who are now 17 & up and in the history of my kids some were sick at well check ups and had to go back after a month and get their shots then. Many times since my kids had ear infections they had to postpone their shots and they turned out just fine! Just my opinion thru experience.  

Answer 72

If it is me, I will not take the baby out. It’s a well visit, means your baby is fine. Any concern, you can just call the doctor. Vaccines can wait. I delayed mine and give it one at a time with months apart due to allergic reaction.  

Answer 73

Trust your instincts. Make your own decisions and don’t let them tell you how to care for your baby!  

Answer 74

Wait. You can absolutely delay the vaccines, other doctors will have no problem helping you.  

Answer 75

The fact that they lied about this I would never return sounds shady

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I mean lying and delaying vaccines

Answer 76

Why are you unable to delay some vaccinations? I vaccinated my daughter on an alternative schedule starting at 4 months. She’s received all vaccines but we spaced many out so she didn’t receive all at one time or delayed for a few months all together. That being said, I was working with pediatricians that were willing to work with me on an alternative schedule

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That’s the key, Arshi. not every physician is willing to do it and many just tell you that you can’t. Glad you found someone who works with parents!  

Answer 77

A momma’s gut knows best. If you are not comfortable then delay for a month or two.  

Answer 78

You can delay! Your the parent.  

Answer 79

If this had taught me anything, it's not to avoid vaccines. Not to mention little guys are lowest risk.  

Answer 80

IMO it’s irresponsible to delay vaccinations especially at times like this, unless your kiddo is immunocompromised or actually sick. Physicians have systems in place to help prevent spread of infection. So many people on here are giving their opinion and it’s based on nothing more than their own fear. Call your doctor and ask their thoughts based on your child’s overall health. A baby that should definitely continue to get vaccinated on schedule if at all possible. We need to be realistic about this pandemic. It’s not going away in the next month. If you choose to delay it will be much longer than a month. I realize this is an unpopular opinion on this thread. I’ll find a research article to support my opinion bc I see very few opinions on here backed up with any kind of science.  

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@telegraphic459 yes I agree that his vaccinations are extremely important. However, I do not wish to be in a confined space with a potentially asymptomatic nurse or doctor and expose my baby or myself to the virus. I will call his doctor and discuss my options.  

Answer 81

I took my 2 month old for her shots last week, just used one of those car seat covers. The office was empty. I felt very safe. I felt like she’s more at risk of getting whooping cough or something else at this point since these were her first vaccines so I didn’t want her to miss the shots

Answer 82

I go to abc peds too. It was my understanding all staff has been tested and you call when in the parking lot and when you enter it is just you and the baby. With what is happening right now, and future uncertainties, I would personally go. We love abc peds, I have a friend who works there and trust them. ❤

Answer 83

Unfortunately asking a mom’s group that has different beliefs in vaccinations probably won’t be too helpful for you. If you don’t trust your doctor’s office you honestly should look for a new doctor. You really have to do what you feel is best for your kids. I personally think you shouldn’t delay too long. We have a pandemic right now because no one is vaccinated against against this disease. Keep in mind, if you delay or skip, your child not only has the chance to catch covid-19 but also any of the diseases you delayed vaccinating. We pushed my daughter’s 3 year appointment since it wasn’t very important and she will be seen in a couple of weeks when my son gets his 1 year vaccinations.  

Answer 84

Mask. Not sure why they can’t wait.  

Answer 85

Do what you think is right. You are the mom and you have the choice. You can go or you can wait. Im not sure why they said you CANT. Maybe she meant they don't suggest it. Of course you CAN not go. They're not going to show up at your door. Ridiculous. I personally will not go into any medical establishment right now for anything non emergent.  

Answer 86

You should delay if you feel that it is not the right time. You are the mom and you know best. You can always delay. Especially at the time of the quarantine. My opinion is that it is not safe to go to a doctors office. If you are afraid that your child will catch the disease that the vaccines are supposed to protect from - children get antibodies from their moms in the belly and through breastmilk for the first year. The studies have shown that young kids are not able to get antibodies from vaccines i. Their first year. Vaccines can also give you the very disease that it supposed to be protecting you from ‍♀️  WHO vaccine global safety summit: https://www. who. int/. /defa. /global-vaccine-safety-summit - you can watch the whole video here.  
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ZrWAq...PGAxQ

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@gaskin4650 just to be clear I am very pro vaccines. I'm not afraid of the vaccines he will be getting. I'm afraid of coronavirus and potentially exposing him to asymptomatic individuals at the drs office since it's a confined space

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I would be afraid of the vaccines rather than corona virus. Vaccines cause chronic issues - the very underlying conditions that people are dying from if getting corona virus.  

Answer 87

I’ve heard people “check in” from the car, and when the MD is ready have the office call you so you can go directly back.  

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I have my daughters 4 month appt coming up in a week. I am not going to delay it, my doctors office said they are taking all the precautions for healthy kids. I am going to put a mask on my baby and wear one myself! Hope all goes well