I totally understand, , to keep the peace, i leave a store bag in the fridge, with 'mom' on it, , i put things in there that are for me and my food plan, things i rely on, , , it has worked so far, , sometimes i put prepared food in the rubbermaid red tops, write 'mom' on the lid with a black sharpie, , it washes off with dawn dish detergent after you are done, , just makes life easier, , , best of luck, , , marching on, , , , , , , , ,