I need some advice. I have a friend who has been struggling financially for a couple of years (probably longer if I had to guess).I need some advice. I have a friend who has been struggling financially for a couple of years (probably longer if I had to guess). She had a vehicle repossessed December 2018, got evicted over the summer of 2019, about to get evicted again. We do not live in the same state, but this is one of my life-long friends who I consider family. She and her husband have 3 kids. They both work. I CANNOT get her to write down her numbers. I have offered to do everything but put my paycheck in her account. At this point I don't think money is the real problem. I know she is ashamed and embarrassed. How do I help her?