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Moms with colic babies.  how did you handle?!?Moms with colic babies. how did you handle?!? I’m absolutely beat. Every night around this time she screams for 5-6 hours nonstop and there’s absolutely nothing that helps. I’m emotionally, mentally and physically drained. I just don’t know what to do! Both my husband and I are drained. Our first two were not colicky. This is new territory for us and one where we’re getting beat up by a newborn every single day. Please help! What worked for you? I’ve tried every formula out there. Our pediatrician says there’s no cure, it can last up to 6 months. How do we survive another 3 months?  
Moms with colic babies.how did you handle?!?

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Switched to Nutramigen formula. Mylicon drops helped alot! Bought a vibrating bouncy chair for movement. Lots of cuddling them tight around their bellies helped too. Good luck. It’s draining. My daughter was Colic for one full year! She turned out to be the best toddler! Hang in there. Rest when you can. Get in a routine that from sundown on you are caught up with your day.  
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@briony796 nutramigen for mine too!  
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@dustheap633 expensive but you’ll do anything for peace.  
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Baby Zantac and a swaddler helped us. Prayers to you and your hubby, it’s hard, but it will get better.  
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I took my son to a chiropractor frequently and I swore that helped, I do regret not trying reflux meds on him. He ended up outgrowing the phase around 12 weeks, we did pay closer attention to wake times as he ended up getting so fussy right around when he should of been napping for his age. follow takingcarababies. some babies aren’t as good as just falling asleep. She has great tips on all of this!  
+54 votes
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Try a chiropractor
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Omg I went through that. Every night from 5pm to 11pm. Until she was 6 months old. The VACUUM THE VACUUM THE VACUUM lol white noise, gas drops before every feeding, gripe water, sleeping at incline, and just take turns. Its miserable I know
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I hear you and I see you. You've recieved a ton of great advice on here. My two cents? Personally we did not do any chiropractic care - seemed too risky to me. Avoid gripe water - it's not regulated. so you can draw your own conclusions there. Wear that baby! Give gas drops! It's an incredibly tough time but the light will shine soon. Call on a friend you trust to take an hour shift. Take a break for 15 minutes and leave baby in a crib or pack n play. Hang in there! You've got this, mama!  
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Acid reflux? Ask the doctor. Both of mine had it!  
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Switched to Nutramigen formula. Took her to the chiropractor. fed her in an upright position. Burped and burped and burped and burped until I thought she was all burped out and then burped some more. I got lucky to where once I got her to sleep, she stayed asleep and it was over. I learned to stand in the bathroom with the lights off, fan on while rocking her. Been there. feels like forever but I promise it gets better.  
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I used gas drops. Hoping you get some relief soon.  
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My son was the exact same way! He ended up on nutramigen which is considered a “pre-digested” formula, gross right! And they put him on Prilosec, for acid reflux. I literally put him in his car seat bucked of course and swung him back and forth all night long it’s the only thing that saved me. I had great arm muscles because those baby seats with a baby swinging back and forth is hard work! Good luck. You can do this! ❤️
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@catchpole38889 no more Prilosec! New links to cancer and it’s coming off the market.  
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If you are nursing watch what you are eating.  
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We’ve been there too! Up to 5 months, but usually (most) of the babies are doing better after 3 months. Except that I tried probiotics and every brand of gas/colic drops available and didn’t help, I want to add: belly massage ( clockwise, you can see on YouTube) right after bath, Windi the gas-passer from Frida (my baby was very gassy), and Tiger hold ( I was wearing her on my arm for hours). It will get better, soon  
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Oh man. My second born was like this and I’ve tried to block most of these memories. Listen—if you have to take a break, it’s ok to put her down for a little bit. Put some ear plugs in and go to a quiet area to regroup. She’ll be ok. Baby wear. My husband would take my little guy for joy rides while he listened to podcasts. I think that did the trick a lot of the time. Hahahahaha Good luck. This too shall pass.  
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Mine 1st was colicky. 8 hours straight every night for 3 months I tried EVERYTHING! Finally did the chiropractor and she was fine after 3 visits we kept going for awhile and was so relieved! They said her head was crooked from a tuff delivery. They showed me what they were going to do before they did everything. Best choice ever!  
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Change the milk, try either Similac Alimentum or Neocate. If that does not work try GI doctor. Our daughter had severe acid reflux we had to find the right food and even to put her on medication for one full year. Once we did that she was relieved.  
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Both of mine we high maintenance colicky babies (now 6&9yrs) but man. I feel your pain. Basically baby wearing, soft music and walking for hours. I also nursed both well into toddlerhood so I watched what I ate as well (dairy & nuts elimination really helped especially with my son who it turned out had a host of food allergies) I also did many of the above gripe water, fennel seed water, baby massage, and so many things but none of them worked as definitively as just committing to walk (sleep-walk? Lol) and sing and changing my diet. With my first my constant refrain was “im new at this too baby. I have no clue what I’m doing” . rough times for sure.  
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Lots of good advice above. My advice is to just keep trying different things, some things work for a bit and then just don’t. Baby wearing helped me survive, along with gerber soothe probiotic drops. Check with your doctor to see if it could be acid reflux. Do whatever you have to, to get sleep. that is so important when you have kids crying at you all day and don’t be afraid to ask for help from others. My son is still an extra whiny kid, but we somehow survived that first (very hard) year. Hang in there!  
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Rides in the car would help him. My husband hated going out late but I would remind him we were gonna be awake anyway.  
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I didn’t read the other comments but Gerber soothe drops worked wonders for us.  
+54 votes
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I’m so sorry. My third was my only baby like this as well. We did a few things that helped. 1. REFLUX MEDS! Absolutely saved us. My daughter never spat up. We only tried meds because her sister had more conventional reflux. 2. Massive elimination diet (I breastfed), but for formula, there is one premixed formula without corn. 3. The windi was helpful.  
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Witching Hour? It stopped around 8 weeks for us.  
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One of my sisters put the baby in car seat or baby bouncer in the dryer or washing machine while running but I know sounds crazy. It will one day end . Maybe a fan blowing not on the baby but met by
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Definitely a chiropractor.  
+29 votes
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Join this group, helped me a lot with my colicky reflux baby. She was exhausting but these people are going through the exact same thing so helped me with ideas and not feeling so alone
https://www.facebook.com/groups/fus...share
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My kids were not colicky but probiotics and chiro would be my recommendations based on things I’ve heard
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Oh and hang in there! I’m sure you’re doing great!  
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Our babysitter taught me this trick. Made a HUGE DIFFERENCE. blow dryer. Sit down to rock then turn the blow dryer in low heat about arms distance away (that part is important). The heat and sound are soothing. We used to do it all the time with my middle son. For the entire first year, he would fall asleep anytime it got turned on!  
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Oh wow! Wish I'd heard of this trick 22 years ago!  
+54 votes
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Running the Vacuum cleaner. I didn’t want to pull it out all the time so I made a recording of it I will click it on and he would just go right to sleep it was the best thing!  
+49 votes
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Gripe water and jaz music helped us
+51 votes
by (680 points)
No advice but we are dealing with the exact same thing and going crazy. My son has been diagnosed with a milk allergy and we are battling to find the right formula for him. Uphill battle for sure. Thinking of you!  
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@forequarter Keenan-Christopher we thought our daughter had colic but it turned out that she was allergic to MY milk. I pumped for almost a year before they figured it out. Her skin would peel off in sheets.  They finally figured it out after almost a year of pumping and freezing my milk. I ended up donating my milk to the University of Iowa Children's Hospital (my alma mater). It was the largest, single donation of breast milk in the history of their hospital and they sent me pictures of the pre-me babies drinking my milk ♥. That was in 2004.  
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I experienced the same exact thing! Crying for hours starting around 5/6 pm every single day until she was 4 months! There are many people and docs out there who will dismiss and say it’s just colic but a lot of the time it’s actually reflux. Does your baby arch back during or after feeding? That’s the number one indicator or reflux. It’s very painful for babies and goes on for a while after the actual feeding.  
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Oh I’m so sorry. none of the recommendations worked for our first, very colicky child. Gripe water was a waste, reflux meds as well-still gave it to her but she kept screaming. Baby wearing? Oh no, that definitely pissed her off more than soothed her. And she would spit up all over us all day long so, yeah no baby wearing did not work out. She was like that for her first year. She didn’t like car rides, she didn’t like white noise/vacuum, we had to feed her alimentum $10 bottle premixed cuz she refused the powder formula. That took the edge off but I still have PTSD from it all. After crying all day long though she would sleep through the night and that was the only thing that kept us from going insane. Hang in there. Get a good and patient babysitter and pay them well. I went back to work as soon as I could to get some sense of normalcy back. Thank the Lord our other two were nothing like she was. Now she’s the sweetest 3rd grader ever.  
+35 votes
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I tried gripe water and gas drops and rocking and white noise. TBH nothing really helps. This is a phase and will pass. Around 12 weeks my son was out of it. Hang in there.  
+46 votes
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Baby wear! Get a wrap and keep her close. Only thing that worked and kept me sane
+46 votes
by (670 points)
My daughter is now 18 years old so I can tell you that you will get through this, but at the time it’s a living hell. Our daughter basically wanted to be held all day and night. The only thing that helped was pacing the halls and gently bouncing her up and down. We used Nutramagen formula, and she napped in her swing. On the bright side, she sleeps hours now as a teen, and has been a beautiful and very intelligent child. ❤️
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Try giving her chamomile tea with karo syrup. Works miracles. Everything will ease the babys stomach.  
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Chamomile has always worked for us too! I prefer it over gripe water and gas drops
+41 votes
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Dr. Cortney Weigand DC can help with this
+53 votes
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My daughter had colic for four months. The dr. gave us drops to put in bottle for the last bottle of the day. Because after that feeding is when the crying started. These drops helped a lot. It was a prescription but may be OTC now. Ask dr what is best brand. after colic she was the sweetest baby.  
+43 votes
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White noise-vacuum worked magically, give up dairy if breast feeding, chamomile tea or gripe water, swaddling. You just get through it. It’s so hard and my heart goes out to you. Ours lasted about 3 months.  
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How old is baby? I had a harder time with my third too. A little bit of chamomile (1 oz or less) was the only thing that worked for us!  
+43 votes
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Try running water or also try putting her in a front facing carrier. The pressure on their belly helps
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Have you tried methods from "The happiest baby on a block" by Dr. Harvey Karp? you should easily find it on youtube. Did a miracle with my 2 boys! For us first 3 steps -swaddle, shushing and rocking was enough.  
+43 votes
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Sleep rotation. You sleep for 3-4 hours while your s/o has the baby, then, you switch. It’s the only way my husband and I survived our first child.  
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@sibella Same! We also switched formula to Enfamil Reguline and it helped my daughter a lot! Also, we added probiotics to her bottle and that helped her too!  
+39 votes
by (560 points)
Totally remember those days and ours is now 10! Our little girl was extremely colicky too. We found out she had GERD and her ped put her on meds for reflux and helped her tremendously. Also our chiropractor helped a ton! I know it seems like it will never pass, but it does. In the meantime hang in there!  
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How do you know is colic and not reflux? My daughter was the same way . she had acid reflux. My son too. I had to switch to a special formula ( nutromigen) that helped a lot. Good luck! I know how hard that is.  
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Sorry ur going through this. My third baby also had colic and my first two didnt. Walking around holding her face down, while patting her on her back was slightly helpful. Hang it there. At around 4 months of going thru it, it suddenly stopped one day. If it’s any consolation she has been the most pleasant natured “easy” child since. She’s 16 now and still a joy. This will pass for you too. Good luck.  
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Try comfort nursing if you’re nursing.  
+29 votes
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This group might be helpful for you.  
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by (380 points)
Stretchy wrap baby carrier and an exercise ball for me to sit and bounce on while binge watching a show ‍♀️
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I had colic as a baby and my mom said the only thing that worked was putting me in the car and driving around until I went to sleep. Not super convenient if you have a bunch of other things to do around dinnertime, but apparently it worked for me.  
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@oldham so many fantastic comments on this thread! I’m sure you’ve probably done most of the suggestions and considered the others! . I’m a chiropractor in Naperville. we’ve seen lots of babies with similar symptoms! DM me or our office Structure Integrative Healthcare if you have questions about how chiropractic could help you. Keep doing what you’re doing! And try everything else!  
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Chiropractic amd cranial sacral therapy are life changing !  
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When our daughter was a baby she had colic really bad too. We started off rolling a cloth diaper into a soft log and payed her down over it with it under her belly. Sometimes that helped I would rub her back. If it was an all nighter my husband would take the car bed and we would place her in there and drive around the neighborhood till she finally fell asleep. She is now 50 and perfectly fine. Hang in there it will be just a memory in the blink of an eye.  
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My son was colicky for about two and a half months. We ended up changing his formula (I didn’t produce any breast milk after I had him ) and gave him a probiotic once a day in a bottle. We also started “swaddling” him in the Love to Dream transitional swaddle and he started sleeping almost through the whole night. He’s 4 months old and a completely different baby! Hang in there mama! It will get better!  
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My 4th child did this. I knew something wasn't right after pediatrician changed formula 4 times. Finally diagnosed with acid reflux. Within 24 hours of taking medicine she was a different baby. Happy, eating and no more screaming. By 6 months she outgrew it and didn't need meds any longer. Worth asking your pediatrician.  
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My son was the same way for about 8 weeks. He’s now 26. His pediatrician was worried about me. All I can say, is that it will pass. His pediatrician would tell me that it was ok to put the baby down and walk away for a few minutes. One night, it just stopped. Hang in there. Your post just brought back vivid memories of that struggle.  
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@story262 oh I’m trying. Either I hang in there or I hang myself. Lol I’m only laughing today because I cried a ton yesterday. I’m anxiously waiting for the day to come when she stops this nonsense because this Mama and her Daddy and all the grandparents are getting beat up big time over here.  
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@oldham I hear you. One evening, I was at a wedding and my mom called me to tell me that she was having a hard time. We ended up going home. I hear you. Do walk away for a few minutes, as long as the baby is safe in a crib, it’s ok to take a minute. I know how hard that is too. Hang in there.  
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I went through this with my son 10 years ago. I had found the only thing that worked was running the exhaust fan above the stove, which meant I needed to stand with him in the kitchen alllll daaay looong for 12 weeks! My husband tried to move the reclining chair into the kitchen to help, but when I tried to sit, it started up again, so standing was my only option. I feel your pain. unfortunately the only support I can offer is letting you know you are not alone and there are other mothers out there with the same predicament and just remember "This too shall pass" It is temporary. It lasted about 16 weeks for us. Once he was 12 weeks old, I had to go back to work and take him to daycare. that was fun trying to explain to daycare about the colic. I left specific instructions with them of how much to feed him because I didn't want them to try to cure his colic by shoving a bottle in his mouth every time he cried, so I told them how much to feed and when and told them not to deviate. The 1st week I received many nasty calls at work from them. they had accused me of not feeding him enough and they argued with me. They said they would get their staff nurse involved. I told them please do so. They called me later that day and apologized. The staff nurse said my feeding schedule was right on target and apparently explained to them about colic. Thank god it only lasted another few weeks from that point. Just keep your head up. Time goes by soooo fast. Even though it feels bad right now, try to make the best of it and enjoy your little bundle of joy.  
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@jerboa I had to stand under the bathroom exhaust fan! I had never considered the kitchen one!  
by (860 points)
@jerboa this is exactly what I said to my husband. Our first two went to daycare. if they had had colic it would have been terrible. How would a stranger deal with this? With this baby my mom is now retired and watches her. Which makes me feel both much better but also terrible for my poor mom who committed to watching her knowing our first two were a breeze and of course she gets the most difficult baby.  
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I did this with my oldest child and yes, it’s impossible! She did get relief from bouncing in my arms on an exercise ball. But it went on for hours and hours every night and we were so tired. One day it did just stop.  
by (860 points)
@arrangement I hope my one day is very soon.  
+45 votes
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Two things worked for my daughter, bouncing on an exercise ball while holding her, pretty sure I did that for hours! Also have u tried a bath during it? A lot of times it can be their belly and for some reason the bath soothes them!  
by (860 points)
@falbala30 I agree, yes bath does calm her down. We do it every night. After bath she’s right back to her screaming but at least we get half hour of calm out of her with a bath. I wish I knew exactly what bothers her. Come to think of it. if bath works I wonder if heating pad on her belly would help. I’ll have to ask pediatrician if we can try that.  
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@oldham yes totally try or just a warm wash cloth or something! And remember it’s ok to put the baby down in a safe place and give yourself 5 minutes of a break! They will be ok!  
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I’m sorry your family is going through this. Ask famiily and friends to help.  
by (860 points)
@parvati thank you. Thank God we do get help. I don’t know how people do it without. My in laws help a lot when they can. My mom watches her during the week every day while hubby and I work so I feel bad asking her to do it on nights and weekends too. She would if I asked but I don’t want to do that to her. This little baby is destroying us all it seems like.  She better take good care of us all when we get very old.  
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It is so extremely hard. Nothing fixed it for us other than time but a few odd things helped. My son would only nap in his swing and the sound of the vaccum would put him to sleep. The floors had never been cleaner. Also the sound of the bathroom exhaust fans would help. I stood in my bathroom for hours singing and patting him on the butt with the fan or running shower going. He would scream at the same time every day and most of the night. Google the colic hold. I heard it works for some people. For us the worst ended at 3 months. He is now 3 years old. He is still strong willed but is a very big sweetheart. Car rides helped us survive as well.  
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Miracle product saved my sanity with my third daughter. Check out the Windi!  
by (860 points)
@crappie thank you. I’ll have to check this out. Never heard of it.  
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Chiropractic can help also. We treat children and babies and have had success with a 7 day old with colic issues. Call us to set up a time to cone in! The week of February 24th we are doing free Check ups for kids because we are promoting health benefits chiropractic care brings to children. Call us with any questions! Dr. Tison is great and win best Naperville chiropractor for 2019! Www. tilsonchiropractic. com
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@oldham I did not read all the comments but my friend struggled with this with their second. They ended up renting the SNOO bassinet monthly and it changed their life! He now sleeps and they feel like new parents! Good luck!  
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Try gripe water! Can be found at Walgreens in baby aisle. I used that for my son- but he didn’t stay colicky for long.  
+25 votes
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Make sure that it isn’t acid reflux. Our son was the same way. However when diagnosed and on medication things changed. They also advised us to add rice cereal to formula or breast milk to keep it down from reflux. We also tried colic calm and that worked wonders.  
+12 votes
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Neutromegin formula, gripe water, loud country music while walking and holding baby in tummy
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Big hugs mama! This will pass
by (860 points)
@ilianailine41 I’m counting the days. My first two were so easy. This one has pulled the rug from underneath me for sure.  
by (850 points)
@oldham my first had colic. I feel your pain
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I was all by myself when my youngest developed colic. Hubby was over seas. Lived away from family. I do feel your pain. It got so bad that I was more concern about myself, afraid that I would do more harm to my baby. She would be up 12 to 20 hours a day screaming. I couldn’t find any relief. Sometimes I could bounce on the ball with her but that would only last 5 minutes. My Dr finally gave me a Rx, and it did help her. That was 25 years ago and I’m still waiting for my daughter to get over colic. Good luck to you. Keeping you all in my prayers and thoughts.  
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@murine48 oh dear lord this better not last 25 yrs. I completely understand you. It’s very draining. I don’t know how you did it alone.  
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My daughter was finally put on neocate. It’s prescription but everything from breastmilk to every formula out there she would scream. Also run a hair dryer or vacuum cleaner. Now there are apps that have those sounds!  
+45 votes
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Have you tried Gripe water?  
by (860 points)
@sewel0 we have. Didn’t work unfortunately.  
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Hang in there mama♡ is there a family member or friend you can reach out for help a night here and there? They spend the night at or home and help hold the baby while you catch up on some sleep?  
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A couple people have mentioned acid reflux. All 4 of my daughters had it and they didn’t spit up. The only symptom was the crying/screaming. The doctor told me the first was just colicky when I called about the crying until my daughter had a screaming attack in her office and then she sent us for the test. She would literally cry all night I would ask your doctor if this could be a possibility. Hang in there!  
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@islamism0 we’ve tried. It’s not unfortunately. I kind of wish it was so we’d know what it is, give her medicine and be done with it.  
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This book recommends getting baby an earlier bedtime and more sleep. Says the “witching hour” is just baby is overtired
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And I agree with @indissoluble. I called healthy sleep habits happy child my “bible”! Life changer. But you have to be disciplined and put all your trust in what the book says despite what others may say.  
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While I can appreciate all the various advice I see for you, I also know how hard it is when nothing you do makes a difference bc it’s colic. So healthy sleep habits have no impact. That’s how it was for me too. I don’t have the answers but reflecting, I wish I would have not even worried about debt and simply gotten lots and lots of help and relief so I could get away and get a break and get some sleep.  
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@nixie this !  
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This “hotline” was a saving grace for me. Check it out and give them a call if it feels right to you.  
https://www.erikson.edu/fussy-baby-...work/
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It won’t last!  
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I remember moving cars every night at 1030pm and that was my only "break" from the crying. After 5 months she got better and she slept through the night around 9 months and hasn't stopped. God is good. She is 2. 5 yrs now. It will get better with time. Walk away. Leave the house. Go to Walgreens and buy nothing. My savior! Sending my love to you and your baby!  
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@anthozoan this is what I did yesterday. I didn’t leave the house but I put her down in her pack n play, the older two were sleeping, my husband was getting us dinner. I put the baby down and went upstairs for 5 minutes to just give my mind a 5 min break. She continued screaming until she got so tired that she fell asleep. I feel bad for her too. Poor thing screaming for hours. I’m sure it’s exhausting for her too.  
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I had two severely colicky babies- I promise it gets better! For my first son I cut out any/every form of dairy. I was nursing and even one drop of skim milk in my coffee made him go bananas. My second was happy in the ergo and nothing else. Turned out he had some ear issues we didn’t even realize and being upright helped that. So I would say cut out all dairy, check his ears, and just know that this will pass sooner than later. Sending hugs
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Thank you ladies. We’ve tried gripe water, probiotics, chiropractor, and acid reflux medicine. None of them worked unfortunately. I’ll research some of the other options presented here. Much respect to all of you that have gone through colic babies! Now that I’m experiencing it too, I understand the intense struggle.  
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@oldham with all the comments not sure this one made it. The vacuum. Other white noise helped but not as much
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If you're interested in trying 100% pure essential oils I could give you some samples. Moms have had luck with doTERRA's DigestZen (digestive blend), lavender, and peppermint. PM me if you're interested
+36 votes
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No advice! But can definitely help! Either with baby (I can handle a few hours of crying! ) or sending the big girls over by me for play date breaks. Xoxoxo friend!  
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@western76043 @oldham ditto! happy to do either - truly!  
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@western76043 and @assentation thank you. Next weekend I might take you up on that offer. We feel terrible for the older two because the baby drains us so much there’s not much left for the other two. They keep acting out too clearly because they’re seeking our attention. ‍♀️
+25 votes
by (1k points)
I feel your pain. My daughter was colicky. I thought I was going crazy. I wore noise cancelling headphones ( they did not cancel that well) and I would rock with her in the rocking chair. For hours. It will pass. My daughter stopped at about 3 months.  
+50 votes
by (1.9k points)
I heard of the Windi but never knew about it with my son. Colic in babies is SO hard. My husband and I would dread the 5-10pm time. BUT I recommend trying to make it is the best time of the day, I told my husband I would watch my favorite shows (on loud volume) have my glass of wine and he would have my 2 year old during this time so I could spend the one on one time with the baby. Every single month my husband and I would do something to celebrate getting through that month. Ours lasted for 6 months exactly. I hope yours is less. And of course when you need help or another human around ask ask ask!  
by (2.8k points)
We had 6 months of colic with grace too. I am still traumatized. I have so advice other than to say that it does get better eventually & you are not alone. Even now, when I see all these happy babies, I wonder why we had to struggle so hard. But there is definitely light at the end of the tunnel. Hugs!  
+37 votes
by (2.2k points)
I felt this way 100% when my son was like this it feels like a eternity though it did help when I put on my spotify through my sons swing cricket or nature noises seems to help a bit my son had reflux as well which I had him sit up right which helped as well it will stop and just know your doing great
+21 votes
by (680 points)
Go see Leona at The Healing Place. all natural adjusting. she does infants ALL the time and parents swear it helps heal their colic babies!  
by (680 points)
I literally could not get out of bed when I was pregnant due to sciatica and she was a godsend! I kicked myself for not going sooner. she came highly recommended and now I know why!  
+26 votes
by (680 points)
Maybe could be reflux, some reflux you didn't notice bc it is only inside. With colic I put my baby in my arm over his tummy, and for reflux after eat I seat him in his car seat to avoid the reflux. One dr told me if I feed my baby less than every 2 hours the mixing milk( old and new) could generate colics.  
+24 votes
by (460 points)
My son was colicky and it is SO hard! He ultimately went on a reflux medicine. We also found that the earlier we put him down in the evening, the better. Otherwise, he would scream from 6:00-? Every kiddo is different though. Best of luck to you and I know it seems like an eternity. and it is exhausting. but it will pass! Hang in there
+8 votes
by (890 points)
We took our colicky daughter to a chiropractor and that night we saw results. One adjustment and she was able to eat more than 2 ounces and did not need to be bounced or jostled to stop crying.  
+8 votes
by (650 points)
I have four kids and only my fourth one had colic and reflux. She was always miserable and crying. She used to cry all day and night long and used throw up so much everytime she was fed I was changing 5-6 outfits everyday. Its emotionally and physically draining for parents. Especially when you try everything and they won't stop screaming. I tried everything and nothing really worked until a friend suggested I give chiropractor a try. I saw so much difference just after the first session and after just a few session she had stopped throwing up and wasn't crying with pain anymore. That was the best thing I did for the baby and I.  
+21 votes
by (450 points)
We had a colicky baby who kept us up for like 3 moths straight. Then when we told his doctor and he recommend him to drink colic formula and ginger water. That helped him slept through the night and stop crying.  
by (860 points)
@reify which colic formula was it? I’ve tried multiple formulas that are supposed to help with colic but while some are better than others, nothing is really stopping it. Also what type of ginger water? I thought we can’t give babies water the first year (outside of the water mixed with formula of course).  
by (450 points)
@oldham we used similac sensitive and gripe water.  
by (450 points)
@oldham similac and gripe water saved our lives and marriage. Sorry, I meant gripe water for colicky.  
by (450 points)
@oldham you can add gripe water into formula just follow the instruction. You can also check with the doctor too. Just this was my experiences with my colic son and that’s what his doctor told me. After we change formulas and add some gripe water our son began to feel better and didn’t cried much.  
+47 votes
by (2.6k points)
My first had colic. Every night for 4 months she would scream and cry for a couple hours between 1-4 am. It was HARD. I knew how many steps I had to take while pacing with her to get her to start calming down (1832 steps). Once she started to calm down, I would take her downstairs with me and we would snuggle on the couch and watch Oobi. Oobi was a show on NickJr at ther time that has hands with eyes as characters. If she was calm enough when I turned it on (light-medium crying, restless), she would settle down and I could snooze on the couch with her. If she wasn't calm enough, it wouldn't help and I'd have to go back to pacing. What also helped was on the weekend, my husband would take care of her during her colic bouts since I did it during the week. That way I could get some sleep (i still got up to nurse though). Good luck! It won't last forever, but it feels like forever when your in the middle of it. Our doctor did say colic might be hereditary. My mother in law had it, so maybe ask your parents?  
by (860 points)
@mohandis6 thank you. My Mom says I had it. I was two months premature and this baby was a month premature. I wonder if premature babies are more prone to colic? Who knows! The hard part is that I work full time. I can’t really catch up during the day. My poor mother, who ironically is dealing with it twice. once with me as a baby and now again with my baby. watches her during the day while hubby and I are at work.  
by (860 points)
@mohandis6 hubby and I mostly see the colic at nights 5-10pm and all day on the weekends.  
by (2.6k points)
@oldham I feel for you. I'm sure you're exhausted. There is nothing as nerve wracking as a baby crying, especially when it's your own!  
by (860 points)
@mohandis6 thank you. It’s pretty exhausting. I’m grateful for her, she adds such incredible joy to our family of course. But I’d be lying if I didn’t say we’re hoping for her to grow out of this stage soon.  
+51 votes
by (420 points)
We dealt with this. Get a medicine ball, hold your baby with its back against a your body, wrap your arms around her and just bounce while watching your fav TV show. We used to bounce for hours but it kept ours quiet when we did it
+50 votes
by (420 points)
Colic is rough. My son had a really hard time sleeping. He would nap if I wore him but night was tough. I wished I would have taken him to a pediatric chiropractor but found out about it's positive impact on colic after he had gotten past it
+41 votes
by (1.9k points)
Not sure if this was mentioned before but chiropractic work works wonders on colicky babies. My son was super colicky and I never did it and boy I was ready to rip my hair out. Second child she started to get colicky took her to the chiropractor and it was a miracle worker. Find one that specializes in working with babies.  
+42 votes
by (440 points)
Dr. Cortney with  saved our family! She is an amazing pediatric and maternity chiropractor and has a special gift for colicky babies and helped when nothing else would.  
https://www.facebook.com/Structurec...ctic/
+21 votes
by (1.6k points)
Chiropractic care 100%
+25 votes
by (1.3k points)
My son was - we drove around a lot - kept him in the carrier - ran the vacuum (before sound machines) - it is so stressful - I can relate! Ask for help - I know it’s hard!  
by (1.3k points)
We also change formula and found a special one that helped - 18 years - can’t remember! It lasted 6-8 weeks - we took him in the basement and one night he screamed for hours - like we have never heard and that was the end -
+48 votes
by (1.5k points)
My son started developing it right after I stopped breast feeding. I swear there’s a link with the gut. We finally landed on nutramagen (pre digested) formula. That’s what worked best for him. I would encourage you to look into changing his diet or yours if he is Ebf. Prayers, mama.  
+1 vote
by (260 points)
We used alimentum also. And I swore by the little tummys. Even tho the other gas drops were the same ingredients the little tummy’s always worked better for both my kids. Also, I kept mine upright for 30 mins after EVERY feeding and slept on the stomach which I know is a big no no but made a huge difference. My dr was the one that suggested it. And we also used Prevacid. We saw a huge difference when we got it all figured out. And if we didn’t have them upright for 30 mins after every feeding we paid the price later. Oh, and Dr. Brown’s bottles!  
+17 votes
by (460 points)
If you haven't, take her to a chiropractor! It helps tremendously.  
+40 votes
by (360 points)
What worked for us was baby wearing. Also rocking, I used to sit in a rocking chair with him all bundled up. Me and my husband took turns. Colic is really hard on parents. Hang in there momma. It gets better!  
by (360 points)
Gripe water and gas drops also helped a bit. I have few gripe water bottles that are unopened. Just dm me if you would like to take them.  
+36 votes
by (1.3k points)
Ours lasted a year, even a bit longer! eventually it gets better, but lots and lots of patience
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