+25 votes
by (220 points)
I lost 70 lbs last year on ww. In October we had some life changing stuff happen and I have fallen into a depression. I’ve gained 35 back. Any tips how to get myself going again before I end up back where I started!?!?  
I lost 70 lbs last year on ww.

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+21 votes
by (5.1k points)
Second 1/2 of 2018 and all of 2019 body slammed me. I was down-150 pounds and feeling good. In August of 18 I had to court commit my 16 year old daughter to rehab, then began my 3 hours up 3 hours back trips to see her. I am a single mom so done alone. Cookies and fast food became my friend. Then got her home at the end of 18 and by the end of January of 19 I found my self 50 pounds up and facing being homeless and unemployed (I did in home daycare) moved in with oldest daughter and found a job, youngest daughter moved in with ex husband fast forward August 19 same daughter has a baby who was flown to our university hospital at 12 hours old and had open heart surgery at 36 hours old (doing great now and is 6 months) I stayed with him the whole 3 weeks he was in. 1 week after he got out I landed in the hospital with congestive heart failure was in a week and told to go home and prepare for open heart surgery so for prep had to have colonoscopy and all my teeth pulled. Passed out and face planted the day after tooth surgery so back in I go that was October 5th and had full open heart surgery on the 22nd to replace my aorta valve out of the hospital on the 31st to recover. Back to work January 16th all this I said to say no matter what I refused to quit! I did get some of the 50 off before surgery and since January 1st almost 20 more off. You just have to decide and take that 1st step that 1st meal then the next. You can do this! Good luck you’ve got this!  
by (2.2k points)
@nitrobenzene GOD BE WITH YOU
by (5.1k points)
@burg93462 trust me He has been and is!  
+17 votes
by (3k points)
Weigh measure and track! Commit to one day you will feel so good at the end of that day the rest will be history
+16 votes
by (430 points)
I had lost 50#s & then had things happen. In our church my pastor kept saying to get rid of anything that was keeping you from moving forward. I made myself start back to the meetings, logging everything in, drinking lots of water & walking. Write positive notes to yourself & stick them everywhere! You can do this! Message me if you need help. I am back down to where I was before.  
+3 votes
by (18.3k points)
Don't quit! Attend the meetings.  
+7 votes
by (15.9k points)
Get back to the meetings and tracking. Maybe some professional help is necessary.  
+22 votes
by (850 points)
So my advice is going to be different than everyone else's. I read through all the comments because this is similar to my story only I gained all my weight back and then some. I tried several times to get back on track and eat healthier but every time something triggered my depression I would be right back into emotional eating. Get to the root of the depression and get help. For me it was the right therapist, some meds and meds for my child. Once I got a handle on my depression I was able to start and stick to WW without the emotional eating. I am down 35lbs with more to go but feel so much better about it.  
+10 votes
by (1.7k points)
Get mentally healthy! See a doctor. Take meds if needed. Or see a therapist.  
+9 votes
by (3.2k points)
You’re here! Start over! You can do this. step by step. pound by pound!  
+14 votes
by (2.3k points)
I would honestly go see a therapist first and foremost so u can figure out what’s going on with you mentally. If you aren’t in the right mindset then you won’t be able to lose weight. Then I would just start slow and focus on one thing at a time like your water intake. Then when u tackled that, then focus on something else. It’s a lot easier telling someone to do something than looking in the mirror and doing it yourself so I totally get it. I understand where you’re coming from and if u ever need to vent, I’m always here to listen. ❤️
+12 votes
by (57.7k points)
Start from day one when you knew your why. Good luck
+21 votes
by (2.6k points)
Im in the same boat. Make sure you go to workshop
+15 votes
by (53.1k points)
Everyday is a new fresh start. We all get into that frame of mind at one point or another. I reread the post I share with other people that are just starting out or need refocusing when I need to refocus myself. Maybe something on this will help you. The good thing is it is a new day! Today you start fresh. Today is your first day! Welcome to WW! Here are some basic tips TRACK every lick, bite, and taste. The program does not work if you don't track. You can lie to the tracker but your body knows what it ate. MEASURE breakout the measuring spoons, cups and the food scale. Don't eyeball it you will be wrong. EXERCISE find something you love. You won't do if you hate it. I personally like walking, dancing when the weather says don't walk, and cardio-drumming. I do cardio-drumming from YouTube videos. Nothing is more satisfying than hitting things with sticks. If you need to start easy try marching in front of the TV during commercials and then build yourself up to a whole show. MEAL PREP I always keep a big bin of chopped onions, a big bin of chopped bell peppers, and a big bin of chunks of cooked chicken breast. I also have staples like cucumbers, tomatoes, spinach, pasta, laughing cow triangle cheese, olive oil farro, tzatziki sauce, garlic, eggs, apples, oranges, bananas, berries, whatever is in season. This way when I am hungry I have healthy choices. Breakfast omlette throw together garlic, onions, peppers, eggs and then fold it over a cut up wedge of laughing cow cheese. For lunch a very easy tzatziki chicken. Chicken, bell pepper, onions, cucumber, tomatoes. Toss it with tzatziki sauce. You can put it on a pita, eat it without the pita, or what I like to do is RIP up half a pita and mix it in after the tzatziki is mixed in. For dinner maybe a salad with the spinach, onions, peppers, chicken. Etc. Maybe pasta or rice with anything on the list. The most important tip is KINDNESS be as nice to yourself as you are to others. When you are giving your self negative back talk, ask yourself if that is how you would speak to a friend and give yourself a break. I almost forgot. zero points does not mean zero calories. For instance, a banana is zero points but if you over banana you are gonna get yourself into trouble. EAT you need to eat within 10 below and 5 above your points level. If consistently under eat your body thinks there is a famine and holds on to every ounce of weight it can until the famine is over. Under eating and over exercising is a bad combo. If you stick to 5 below and 5 above it works better. for me at least. You are not alone in this. A lot of us join with that "last resort" mentality. But don't think that way. Take a nice before picture with a big smile because today is the day your life changed for the better. You are gonna get healthy, you are gonna be fit. You are gonna breathe better. You just need to give it some time. This is a slow process but it is a process that works. I'm excited for you taking this big step towards a healthier life. You might want to sit down and write yourself a love letter stating why you joined WW and what your long term goals are, how you will accomplish them (small term goals) and what you will be able to accomplish when you get there! I personally would like to be able to get up off the floor without having to hoist myself up on the couch like I am climbing Mount Everest. That is one of the things future me will be able to do. Last tip. don't hang out in the kitchen. Eat there, cook there, clean the dishes. But if it isn't kitchen related get out of there it is too tempting. Also do not compare your journey to anyone else's. We are all different. We all have different metabolisms. So mind your own journey and don't worry that someone else lost more that week. It won't help your progress.  
+11 votes
by (360 points)
It is hard, the fact that you recognize it is good, Try to go back to why You started the journey to begin with and what did you do to get going? Channel that! Good luck you got this!  
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