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Anyone juggling 30k credit card debt and living...
Anyone juggling 30k credit card debt and living on one income?
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Feb 24, 2020
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Anyone juggling 30k credit card debt and living on one income? Losing focus.
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+78
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Feb 24, 2020
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zugzwang
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Best answer
38, 000 to IRS
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Feb 24, 2020
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gq50
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zugzwang
do you have anyone representing you?
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Feb 24, 2020
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zugzwang
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gq50
no
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Feb 24, 2020
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zugzwang
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gq50
just making monthly installment payments but it’s killing us- makes it so hard to pay in quarterly each year. which is why we can’t catch up.
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Feb 24, 2020
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zugzwang
i’m going to message you
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Feb 24, 2020
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zugzwang
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is sucks I dread tax season. everyone is so excited and it’s the worst time of year for us- my husband makes over 84, 000 a year and we can’t get ahead we pay them 597$ a month and suppose to take 25% off each check and still live
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Feb 24, 2020
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zugzwang
did you Make Offer to Compromise, an official form? Look for Taxpayer Advocates in your area. Should be mentioned in IRS tax instruction booklet.
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Feb 24, 2020
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didn’t qualify for OIC
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Feb 24, 2020
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zugzwang
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I’m just always told we make enough to pay it
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Feb 24, 2020
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We are juggling 20k cc debt, 30k car debt and 35k student debt on 1 income making 40k. Best thing we have done is get a side hustle.
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Feb 24, 2020
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Side hustle is the only reason we have been able to make such strong extra payments! This!
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Feb 24, 2020
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diphyodont
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I’m trying so hard to side hustle but with 2 girls under 2 years old there’s not much I can do outside of the house
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Feb 24, 2020
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rizzi
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I am a stay home mom to a 3 year old! I sell things on eBay, amazon and poshmark. You can start by selling things laying around your house to gain some money. I can lead you to some YouTube videos from people who resell! Nicole States, Reezy Resells, thrift to travel, RNZY are good people to watch to get an idea :)
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Feb 24, 2020
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Yup! Don’t lose focus. It can be overwhelming but it’s not impossible!
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Feb 24, 2020
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We started at $62, 000 a year and a half ago on one income. Today we are at $41, 000 to go!
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Feb 24, 2020
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wow! Way to go!
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Feb 24, 2020
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I have 106 k worth of debt and on one income. I’m slowly paying it off but it can be done
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Feb 24, 2020
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Unfortunately yes. It’s hard and I’m trying.
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Feb 24, 2020
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We were but I gave up being a sahm so I could work to help pay it off. I want to be able to be there for my kids in the long run so I’ll sacrifice this little time for the future. No regrets about it. Its hard to keep focus but you’ll never regret paying off the debt
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Feb 24, 2020
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Try not to get overwhelmed and lose focus. You didn't accumulate the debt overnight so give yourself some grace in getting it paid off . You got this!
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Feb 24, 2020
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We have 90k total debt and one income. Plus 4 kids.
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Feb 24, 2020
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I have about about 85 total, 50K student loans, 32K consumer debt/credit cards, 3K medical. just me and 4 kids. They say eat an elephant one bite at a time, right? I kinda feel like a mosquito against a herd of elephants
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Feb 24, 2020
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Unfortunately that and then some :( But there is a light at the end of the tunnel, at least that is what I tell myself. Do you have multiple accounts so you can at least see a snowball or is it all in one account?
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Feb 24, 2020
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Yup! We’ve been able to pay off 2 small cards just this year. Almost $3k, EF and $2500 in medical bills. Just gotta keep going and if you make a mistake don’t beat yourself up!
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Feb 24, 2020
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Even baby steps forward is progress. Celebrate every little step forward and daily review your budget and budget calendar to help you stay on track. YOU CAN DO THIS!
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Feb 24, 2020
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We’ve got over $100, 000 in debt of all kinds (not including mortgage-which is thankfully quite small) on one income. Thankfully my husband has advanced quite far in his career these last few years and we now have a pretty large amount we can put towards debt each month, but it sure does get discouraging sometimes! Side hustles, getting creative, and sometimes just trying and focusing on different tactics can help!
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Feb 24, 2020
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I have 2k in credit cards, 65k in loans. Idk when I'll be able to pay off the loans. The interest alone is more than what I can pay monthly.
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Feb 24, 2020
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I have 40k left on my car, 220k mortgage, 15k on credit cards, and in the last 7m have spent almost another 18k on legal/counseling bills with one income ♀️
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Feb 24, 2020
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Same way I have life insurance license I can’t work because my kids. Tomorrow I’ll talk with someone who is offering some job from home using my license, wish me luck for everything work for well
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Feb 24, 2020
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I did! I enrolled in a debt management plan (which is NOT a debt consolidation loan) and paid $32K in 4 years. No dings on my credit. Single mom at the time. Look into Navicore Solutions. Reputable non-profit agency.
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Feb 24, 2020
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Yes and yes. it’s overwhelming but I have been making progress. Def slow and steady. Hang in there. We can do this. Don’t give up❤️
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Feb 24, 2020
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Not all credit card debt - $18, 000 student loan, $2, 200 personal loan, $1, 200 credit card and 1, 000 other debt. Single mama of a dancing boy (monthly dance fees are insane too! ) - it’s tough to keep focus and stay positive. You can do it!
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Feb 24, 2020
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kalinda8
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Me . So hard! Would like a side hustle but my full time job is demanding and I can’t be committed to another job that requires me at specific days/times. No idea what to do. I’m here for you!
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Feb 24, 2020
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you’d have to find an unconventional or flexible source of income. A night job, sales, delivery, babysitting, tutoring, etc. I have a couple other flows.
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Feb 24, 2020
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I have babysat for years and thought about trying to pickup again but, unfortunately it’s not consistent income. I have tried sites such as Freelancer and Upwork but, all I receive are SPAM responses.
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Feb 24, 2020
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I sell on Mercari. It’s simple enough that it doesn’t interfere with normal work. You can thrift shop on days off for fun & then sell it.
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Feb 24, 2020
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$35k in credit cards and personal loans, one income of $4k per month.
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Feb 24, 2020
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I have more debt then that and am a single parent so I feel you on the struggles. It’s not easy but you can do it!
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Feb 24, 2020
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Why only one income ? Why not get more?
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Feb 24, 2020
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One income, two kids, $25k in credit cards and $5k car loan. Finally starting to get serious about it this month. PM me if you need to talk.
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Feb 24, 2020
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Here. One income. My husband makes GOOD money and I'm like how are we not able to kick this when people making WAY less are able to pay off more in a shorter time? I don't get it.
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Feb 24, 2020
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same!
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Feb 24, 2020
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it’s all down to discipline. We are going through the same luckily it’s less than half than OP but still. We are not where we should be!
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Feb 24, 2020
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Its student loans at 30k. no credit cards. Single mom no child support.
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Feb 24, 2020
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You got this dont give up
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Feb 24, 2020
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Don’t lose focus. You’ve gotta stay focused in order to get over the hump and make it through. You can do this! It will take sacrifice and hard work, but you can get things under control.
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Feb 24, 2020
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I was there yes! I was pregnant and my hubby had just jumped careers and we had 30k in debt and they wanted to sue.
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Feb 24, 2020
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♀️ I’m at $25k and single income and struggling hard
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Feb 24, 2020
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Don't lose focus! Been there done that! It CAN be done!
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Feb 24, 2020
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Im with you
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Feb 24, 2020
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But you got this
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Feb 24, 2020
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I felt this post
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Feb 24, 2020
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Pretty much but it’s now a consolidation loan. if we don’t pay this off quickly we will end up paying another $20, 000 just in interest
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Feb 24, 2020
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$40k in Debt with a home loan of $240k and living on one income. You are not alone and trying to stay focused is a DAILY task for us
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Feb 24, 2020
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Yes, one income, kiddos and over $30, 000. $10, 000 in credit cards alone. It's really hard
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Feb 24, 2020
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Yes. single, 30k CC. small savings, but I recently found this group and the budget mom and I know that where I am today is not where I'm going to be in 6 months or a year from now. I am starting very slow and taking little baby steps because I don't want to get myself overwhelmed and quit. So my first focus is to pay all bills on time. That's the reality of my situation. But if you're losing focus maybe restructure things a little bit so that you will continue in any progress $1 less in debt is still progress. And that's what I will be focusing on and I hope you focus on that as well
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