It is a tough commitment, no matter how much weight you need to lose. It's tough eating 3oz or grilled chicken or fish and 2 cups of steamed broccoli while everyone else is enjoying pasta, pizza, whatever, around you. But I have learned to take it 1lb at a time. A pound lost is so much better then a pound gained. Those single pounds eventually add up, becoming 5lbs, 10lbs, and onward. Doesn't matter how long it takes. It took me 5 months, and several slip-ups to lose 25lbs. It took a long time for me to see any changes, but when they finally appeared, it felt so good. Buy a few pairs of inexpensive pants in progressively smaller sizes, it will motivate you along the process. There is nothing like putting on a pair of jeans that you couldn't get up your legs, but now they fit, or even too big! The time you're on Phase 1 is such a small part of your entire life, but the benefits will last for the rest of you life. Don't be discouraged, this is a marathon, not a sprint. Remember, you will always have the support of this group! And. You. Can. Do. It!